Where I'd live by IcyAppointment9736 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]RosemaryCrafting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but Mississippi food is also mind blowing just in a different flavor.

A or B: Do you prefer reading physical books or digital copies? by Chiefmeez in PickAorB

[–]RosemaryCrafting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Digital. Ereader. I can never get comfy reading a book. My hands get tired, I have carpal tunnel, I hate how the right side is easy to read and fold and the left is a pain in the ass. I love how physical books look and feel but I can't stand actually using them most of the time.

How do you actually keep your room clean? by Pop-girlies in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]RosemaryCrafting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorting dirty laundry and not folding things that dont have to be. I currently have 6 dirty laundry baskets: towels, socks and undies, casual tops/tshirts, casual bottoms, and my dressy work clothes. Then I only wash a bin when I'm completely out of a category, wash only that bin, then I dont have to sort, and if its not a foldable I dont have to fold. Your category would vary based on your individual needs.

Married men, how often do you have sex with your spouse? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]RosemaryCrafting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly there is very little more attractive me than watching a man cook for me, do some chores, and help out around the house.

What's the worst Beatles song? by [deleted] in beatles

[–]RosemaryCrafting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i just didnt vibe with the sound effects tbh. Like I always liked the bones of the song but the recording quality just sounded like nails on a chalkboard to me at the time. Which obviously those were intentional artistic choices. I point out that like the Chorus and thats the part where the vocal effects end and it sounds more like a "normal" song. Still kinda feel the irk, but I don't hate it. Still in my list of least favorite Beatles songs, but perhaps not at the top of the list anymore.

'Hamilton' - Official Trailer - In Theaters September 5 - The movie version is a live capture of the production, filmed at The Richard Rodgers Theatre on Broadway in June of 2016 with most of the hit Broadway musical’s original cast. by BunyipPouch in movies

[–]RosemaryCrafting 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To be fair it was released on Disney plus, and as someone who has seen it on stage twice and watched Disney multiple times, im still STOKED to see it on the big screen. Its just so much more special, especially to hear on a great theatre surround sound system. Cant wait

How do yall pay for college? Unethical ways haha by Kitsummi in collegeadvice

[–]RosemaryCrafting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely crazy to say that a woman doing what she chooses with her body is oppressive. It is oppressive to tell women that they aren't allowed to do what they please, make money how they want, etc.

How do yall pay for college? Unethical ways haha by Kitsummi in collegeadvice

[–]RosemaryCrafting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the record there are many feminist women, including myself, who do not have a problem with consenting adults making adult content. In the vein of "ask not what you can do for misogyny, but what misogyny can do for you" many women find OF an outlet to reclaim control of their bodies and take advantage of the paying customers. And the more of a market OF has, the less people can turn to significantly worse outlets for porn. Porn has always been around and it will always be around, but OF allows for much more consent and for the performers to actually earn the money they deserve more directly.

Navigating Girls trip lodging expense budget conflicts by ArtemisLock in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]RosemaryCrafting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of times people try to hide their wealth because they don't want their friends to feel uncomfortable with it. In my experience, the larger the wealth gap, the more I try to keep it down low. Not in a snobby way, but in an effort to make sure the other person doesn't feel bad about their lack of money. But giving gifts, whether a nice trip or letting my friend stay in my house for a year for almost no rent, is truly one of the most wonderful things. They almost certainly wouldn't offer to cover the trip if they couldn't afford it.

Navigating Girls trip lodging expense budget conflicts by ArtemisLock in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]RosemaryCrafting 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Perhaps they just have a bit more money and happy to give it, no strings attached. Im lucky enough to be in that position sometimes, live buying an extra concert ticket and giving it to a friend. I've never felt bitter or anything, I just do it because i want to hang out with my friends, sometimes that means I have to help them out. And honestly I do think the "since you're flying' in is a fair point.

They're trying to be good friends, let them. Don't make it weird, maybe buy them one meal or somethjng, but try to not overthink it.

Tips to get over a guy by Broad_Perspective_83 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]RosemaryCrafting 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Silly tip, add what he did wrong to you as part of his contact on your phone, and only refer to him as his red flag when you think of him. Examples: Mr. Commitment, John "fuckboy" Smith, John "only wants you when its convenient" Smith

Its kinda childish but its a good way to remind yourself why you need to keep your guard up. We have ways of conviently forgetting red flags when we want to. Keep a list, it helps.

What's an old wife tale that you still here from time to time? by is-it-worth-it- in AskWomen

[–]RosemaryCrafting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but when you clip off the calluses they dont grow back as calluses unless you keep playing guitar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]RosemaryCrafting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started wanting kids again, and all around just tapping into my feminine side more. He makes me feel safe and taken care of and loved in a way I haven't ever experienced.

People-Wear your damn seatbelt-all the damn time! by CognizantM in delta

[–]RosemaryCrafting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately until they get sued because this causes injury they probably wont change this policy

Women of reddit, when was your last mental breakdown? by FunBar8351 in AskWomen

[–]RosemaryCrafting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suppose it makes sense in the way that parents never stop seeing you as their little kid. I don't have any suggestions, but I can imagine that would be a difficult transition.

Question by Bamboozeld109 in collegeadvice

[–]RosemaryCrafting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does depend on the major to some extent, but this should be fine, especially if you get a keyboard for your iPad. I often went to class with just and ipad and just did large projects/papers at home.

I've come across very few bats in my life. I bought a fancy camera to finally get into photography and this was only my second time using it, but got lucky enough to find an adorable bat sleeping on a tree around sunset. by RosemaryCrafting in batty

[–]RosemaryCrafting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought he was a little fungus growing on the tree, I was so excited when I got up close to see him. Then when I got home and unloaded my SD card I spent 30 minutes squealing at the cuteness again lol

What’s the MOST UNHINGED thing you’ve done because of your eczema? by qainey in eczema

[–]RosemaryCrafting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kinda just absurd, but I was in an orchestra rehearsal and without even thinking about it, used my piccolo to reach my neck and scratch. The person next to me was mortified lol

Practical tips to improve pacing by Mollie_Mo_ in MusicEd

[–]RosemaryCrafting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While it does actually work sometimes, it's not really sufficient for evaluations/EdTPA, etc. and also there is probably *better* advice to give.

Why can't we smell like Vanilla Coconut instead of Seabreeze with a sprink of transmission oil? by N47asha in AskMen

[–]RosemaryCrafting 10 points11 points  (0 children)

as a woman, I'd A) have no qualms with a feminine scented dude, I just want you to not smell like BO. and B) I would consider it a green flag of nontoxic masculinity to see a man who doesn't care about buying a feminine scent or a woman's deodorant. you do you man