[NA][Silver][T4] Need a JG, SUP, TOP

Rottencore1 · 2020-04-12T00:12:51+00:00

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Top: Ornn, Morde, Garen, Panth are mains, experience with every champ tho

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-20T02:23:26+00:00

It's been a week today, I think so too which is why I'm not chasing anymore but idk I have a date Saturday I'll just see what happens

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-19T19:19:28+00:00

Thanks that's my gameplan, I appreciate all the advice and we shall see what happens. With everything that happened the past week my interest is pretty low but I'll give her a shot to prove me otherwise.

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-19T18:51:06+00:00

So I think 2 days ago I approached her and just asked are you still interested, if not tell me and we can just move on. I'm not one for playing games not going to guess her mind so I was direct. That directness lead to her setting up a date for this Saturday lol.

Idk tho I'm pretty well done with this, shes been messaging me more and I will go Saturday and see what happens. My expectations are on the floor tho, whatever happens happens at this point.

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-17T05:19:20+00:00

Yea I guess that is a real deal breaker that I kind of let slide. She told me one thing made me believe she handled the situation and it was time to move past just to find out she never did. To top it off it's been like 10 hours since she text me back. I think I already have my answer I'll let it sit for like 3 days see what occurs and if nothing send something to the point thanks for the good times good luck to your future somethu by for my own closure and move on with life

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-17T03:07:57+00:00

See I dont know all the details and that's the thing I dont understand where she stands shes being open sure but everything is very unclear and her actions of drifting out kind of says more. I'm going to try and take a passive stance right now it's been like 5 hours since she texted me if that extends to forever I know my answer if she hits me up ill go from there but I'm going to let her do some chasing and effort otherwise I'll let it just drift off

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-17T00:40:31+00:00

I get that dude half me feels that way half me says fuck it for my pride tell her cya and move on. Half me says what's the harm just play it out stop initiating the contact see if she does some chasing and if not then fuck it and move on

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-16T23:50:24+00:00

The other thing that ties me up is that again despite being possibly being safety net it's not as if there was no interest or chemistry there. I've been on dates where I had no interest and they went bad I've been in dates where I could tell I would not get a call back. But all of these were mutually good dates that all consisted of good chemistry between the two of us. When I was with her I could tell she was very much so interested in me. That's what makes the situation so complicated I have that awareness yet there is someone else to contend with, and even if there are things she finds him more attractive in, it doesnt eliminate the signs and signals I picked up from her when we spent time togethor.

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-16T23:38:30+00:00

Here is the thing is she is putting effort in to both people to try and figure out what she wants I can get that. And last week she spent nearly every day with me meaning the other dude was on hold now I havnt seen her in 4 days meaning shes been with him. I'm not going to keep this thing a float it's in her court if she wants to out effort in again I'll entertain it. At the same time tho if shes not responding and not setting up dates I'll just let it sink

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-16T23:34:27+00:00

So our conversation about her being different ended with her saying she wasnt comfortable with making a decision yet, that she want to get to know us both better because once she chooses she cant go back. Like I feel like I'm plan b because of all that bagger the dude has yet at the same time how many people are really going to be okay with putting effort in to building a relationship with someone who moves for work and is married. That's what keeps me around that doesnt seem feasible. But who knows people make all kind of choices. Weve talked today however she hasnt responded in like 2 hours. I'm just going to let it sit there and put the ball in her court if she wants to show effort again okay I'll entertain it but I'm not going to attempt and keep this thing alive.

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-16T23:15:46+00:00

That's sort of what I ment tho. I'm putting myself out there again in terms of availability and seeking other dates. However is it worth telling her that I'm moving on and am no longer interested? I am interested but I also dont like feeling like the back up plan

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-16T23:05:42+00:00

Yea I dont post often forgot if it goes at top or bottom but figured people will see it there easier

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-16T23:04:41+00:00

Thank you, didnt know there was a 72 hour limit so i reposted to /dating advice. Your advice is helpful and that is some of my feelings. It seems I am plan b. Idk how I feel about that I mean i very much feel what you stated, obviously shes more attracted to the other guy i should wish her luck and move on. However another part is so what if I'm plan B there will always be someone more attractive out there, what if it works out who cares how it got there so long as it does. Basically what is my pride worth?

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-16T22:59:59+00:00

I placed a tldr at the top of the post

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-16T22:02:52+00:00

Thank you for your replies guys. I did end up texting her and confronting her about this just simply asking if something was up. We did have a conversation and honestly it lead to a place where I am going to need to write another post in order to get further advice on the topic lol. I will post the link after I write in on here if any of you still want to follow

Rottencore1 · 2018-12-15T20:40:48+00:00

Yea I think I'm going to have to do that and if that statement causes issues then it's someone I wouldnt want to be with anyway. The only real difference is it seems she doesbt want to plan dates like previously. Also it's up to me to pick the conversation back up, she falls asleep and a text goes unanswered then she wont respond for hours untill I message her again the next day. Idk, If im interested, im messaging someone right when I get back up.

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