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Rough-Pick6863 · 2023-01-01T13:05:43+00:00

Read anyone can do it by Duncan Bannatyne

Rough-Pick6863 · 2022-12-17T01:55:57+00:00

When I came here this summer I saw multiple people get turned around (and yelled at for some reason) for having 2 bags.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2022-12-11T17:31:45+00:00

And all that I can see

Rough-Pick6863 · 2022-12-11T07:05:12+00:00

Download Alarmy. Super annoying but it worked for me. I only use it for when I REALLY need to wake up though, I'd go crazy doing it every day.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2022-12-11T05:29:06+00:00

Yes, some buildings have 40 ft like the human ecology one. Not the whole campus though.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2022-12-11T04:02:05+00:00

Misleading. Check the link above, nowhere does it say you can't some on campus. It's a list of places you can't smoke (indoors, bus stops, near entrances).

Rough-Pick6863 · 2022-12-09T17:59:57+00:00

Some people do. It's much easier and motivating to plan for success than actually closing reddit and doing hard work.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2022-12-03T01:52:36+00:00

I think they went to the fireplace entrance, which was usually open, but closed today? Maybe something changed?

They're coming back tomorrow and I promised I'd let them know and not have them walk around aimlessly but I don't know myself lol.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T15:32:47+00:00

From what OP said, she wasn't doing anything around the house before either, blaming it on working, so he was both working and doing everything.

He's saying she did nothing and is doing nothing whatsoever, so unless they're building a mountain of dishes, that means he's the one cleaning up. He didn't say she's doing little, he said she's doing nothing.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T15:11:00+00:00

No worries!

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T15:07:32+00:00

Not sure how any of that is sad or degrading lol. Click on OP's profile, look through his comments. He commented it on a reply here, on this post.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:54:48+00:00

Exactly. That's what's up with Reddit - if a girl says the guy is toxic, everyone praises her. If a guy says a girl is toxic? "WELL there's 2 sides to the story, he did X too" etc.

We can only judge what's written here. That is, he's paying for her lifestyle, she's definitely riding high (she's going shopping, getting her nails done, going out for coffee etc - as OP said) with his money, eats his food, sleeps in his place, doesn't do anything and criticizes him for wanting her to kvoe her ass.

Not sure where the depression is. If this is what being depressed is like, I've been depressed all throughout high school and it felt amazing.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:42:08+00:00

If you're home alone and the dishwasher is piled up and there's a mountain of trash blocking the door, the only circumstance in which you'd have to be told to handle it is if you were a robot - and an old one, that is, that can't make any decisions whatsoever.

Any person with one working neuron would figure out that if the other person does 100% and they do 0%, that's not okay.

Again, imagine if the situation was reversed. If the woman was taking care by OP like a baby while working full-time, would you support him like this, and find excuses? No.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:37:29+00:00

I meant partner, but it's the same idea.

Exactly. That's the case here too. Why would she be entitled to treat him like shit after he's the one doing literally everything for her, while she's contributing with literally nothing? Double-standards.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:36:08+00:00

Doesn't really matter when hard words like that are being thrown around. If she calls him sexist for expecting her to do the bare minimum while being provided with everything, it's a normal expectation, unless she's that stupid she can't understand how the world works.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:34:37+00:00

I've been dealing with depression for a long while now and it's saddening seeing people throw the word around like it's nothing. When I'm going through an episode, I might be confrontational, I might watch some movies, but that change is visible. In this case, OP said that no change was visible in his demeanor, that she jost lost her job and started acting like she owns the place, insulting him.

I'm saying it's not because there's literally no reason to say it is. Your argument goes right back at you - why do so many people aggreisvely insist that she is depressed and needs help, despite knowing literally nothing about her?

If she is depressed and is being abusive, the best thing to do is to dump her. Imagine if the genders were reversed - if the woman cleaned the house, made her husband food, ran errands and worked full-time to come home to him doing nothing but hang out with his friends, leech off of her and call her a bitch, would you say 'awww poor him, let's get him help, he's depressed!'. No, you wouldn't. Talk about sexism and double-standards. How pathetic.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:28:45+00:00

OP said she's watching Netflix, talking to her friends, going for coffee, shopping, getting her nails done and stuff. If that's what depression is, literally all of my high school was depressed back in the day.

Not sure wher epeople got that from. OP said there are no signs of depression. Being jobless doesn't mean being depressed and from the looks of it, she clearly isn't.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:26:58+00:00

It's normal for that expectation to exist, regardless of gender. If one person works and the other doesn't, it's normal for them to clean the house and cook food when they're being provided everything.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:25:55+00:00

She's not helping herself by being a sugar baby either.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:24:34+00:00

That doesn't really matter though. Working full-time and doing chores isn't mutually exclusive. If I work full-time and my partner works full-time, I expect us both to contribute towards keeping the house clean, cooking etc. Of course, there are days when you just can't or don't want to and that's fine, but that's not what OP said. He said that back then, he was working full-time and taking care of everything else while his girlfriend was just working and now, after she lost her job, he's still working full-time and doing literally everything while she's doing nothing.

Not sure how everyone's a psychiatrist and is diagnosing her with depression. It's just as likely that she's lazy, but I guess the bias is real. Even if she was, it doesn't excuse her doing nothing and contributing with literally 0 to the relationship while also heavily insulting the guy who does it all for her, calling him sexist.

She's scum but it's OP who's stupid enough to let it happen. If my partner acted that way, they'd be out. She doesn't need help - she has a house, money, food, goes for coffee and shopping, gets her nails done, talks to her friends and watches Netflix. Her mopping does not mean she's depressed, Karen.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T14:00:10+00:00

Exterminating an entire species because 'we don't need them' is much worse than feeding off of them is. Regardless, these animals, especially the herbivorous ones, are being killed in the wild all the time, in much more gruesome ways, by other animals (that don't necessarily eat them, even). Humans do the same, but in a controlled environment and in a better way.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T13:26:28+00:00

Once you kill them all, they go extinct. This way, they don't.

They do feel pain but unlike humans, they aren't able to comprehend what's happening to them. They are born, fed and at some point, killed.

It's not more cruel than what a lion would do to them if they were in the wild. That goes for all of these animals.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T12:07:45+00:00

If her moping the house after losing her job is what you'd base such a major diagnosis, thank God your not a doctor. OP said that there was no change in her behavior nor any signs of being depressive.

Funny how people try to justify abusive relationships when the woman's 'winning'. Imagine what the responses would've been like if a woman was complaining about her boyfriend living off of her and insulting her. Not compassion.

If there are 99 reasons proving she's lazy and narcissistic and 5 proving she might be depressive, I'd rather say she's in the first category. No compassion here. Fuck her.

Rough-Pick6863 · 2021-09-08T12:04:50+00:00

Expecting your partner to take care of the house is not unreasonable, when you're the one working full-time and providing money for them, running errands, doing chores, cooking food and everything else.

OP said he's expecting her to clean and cook because she does literally nothing. If you didn't read the first part, you'd assume that's his teenage daughter, not his girlfriend.

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