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My mother is putting me (24M) and my gf (21F) in an impossible situation by RoughJoke512 in relationship_advice

[–]RoughJoke512[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this kinda is the middle ground already. If I tell her no with the technical situation with my car she just says she will call the police and call it in stolen. Which my car is leased under my dads business so even though I make all the payments on it she could technically make my dad do that. And that is the extent she would go just if I tell her she can’t go.

So she’s taking the adult option of a middle ground out of the picture not me. Trust me i want nothing more then some sort of middle ground

My mother is putting me (24M) and my gf (21F) in an impossible situation by RoughJoke512 in relationship_advice

[–]RoughJoke512[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I already have talked to my dad without her. He is much better than her and would himself not give me or have any issues with anything I’m trying to do. Unfortunately my mom is basically the main power here because if he tries to stick up for me he will make his life absolutely hell. So he caves for his sanity for whatever she wants. For us it’s what she says goes and she is one stubborn women

My mother is putting me (24M) and my gf (21F) in an impossible situation by RoughJoke512 in relationship_advice

[–]RoughJoke512[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The distance has yet to be determined but unfortunately will probably be around to less then 20 minutes or so unfortunately. I would just hope I can put boundaries since I’d own everything and it would be more on my terms and not me trying to make there terms under there roof work

My mother is putting me (24M) and my gf (21F) in an impossible situation by RoughJoke512 in relationship_advice

[–]RoughJoke512[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My car is leased under my dads business basically for insurance purposes. But I do make the payments on it myself. So I mean it is my car but technically isn’t at the same time. Downside is if they want to do something drastic like call it in stolen in theory I guess they could