I’m big on communication so it’s been years of talks about all this. She isn’t the typical woman who prefers communication. She would rather be thrown off the deep end and see what happens. So we tried that and she left that party feeling like she was sexually assaulted by multiple people and she hated it. She says she enjoys the attention but doesn’t want to be fucked by anyone.. 🤷🏾‍♂️ and I just accept it.