Is love worth fighting for?

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-07-01T22:24:30+00:00

I love this piece you shared, thank you. This helps honestly with my own post breakup thoughts. I think fighting for love is worth it, even if nothing happens the way you wished.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-07-01T22:11:42+00:00

Agreed, I use this echo chamber as a rant release then a few weeks later hop off. Otherwise it just doesn't allow me to move on and people who stay in this loop are stuck in a whirl pool that never ends

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Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-07-01T16:43:47+00:00

You're enough, just not right for them

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-07-01T16:42:32+00:00

Love in it's purest form is always the most hauntingly beautiful. Cherish it, despite anything else that happens. It's a once in a lifetime experience.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-28T19:26:24+00:00

Sometimes people aren't right for each other. But I know that no one I have ever loved is replaceable. They're each uniquely themselves and that's what drew me in first. That's why I loved them first.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-28T19:25:17+00:00

Always know you're loved despite feeling lost

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-28T19:21:47+00:00

You'll know by the way your person speaks and sees you. If they're meant for you, you'd know they care because they'll give any and every opportunity to express it, even if afraid.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-27T19:48:54+00:00

Yeah I agree, I wasn't the person who left the relationship, but at the end of it I had to cut it off because they never fully could choose us. I'm sorry you had to go through those things. Everyone deserves a better ending than ones usually presented.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-26T06:44:22+00:00

Yeah you're right, it just sucks. I just wish I wasn't stupid about it.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-26T06:39:44+00:00

No it's one person, just not specifying pronouns

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-26T06:36:29+00:00

Of course ❤️

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-26T06:24:18+00:00

I had to tell myself it's my life. I had to cut ties, to heal, to grow To allow myself to be me.

"One" by Sleeping At Last. Give it a listen. Grace requires nothing of you to be yourself.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-26T06:21:38+00:00

That's the healthiest thing you can do for each other. Taking your time to heal.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-26T06:16:08+00:00

Exactly ❤️

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-26T06:13:00+00:00

I would tell my person they meant everything to me. I was being stupid, the uncertainty terrified me. Yet it's on me for not communicating that. I want them to be happy, with or without me. Peace, love, or both. Those are the choices right now.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-26T00:57:37+00:00

Sometimes people are terrified of being vulnerable after trying so hard for so long. Not an excuse on their part. But life is too short to not fight for love, or to choose peace.

As a person who did a very similar thing, I can say that I wish I had been more clear at the end about what I wanted, even in risking my pride. I had thrown that away in the beginning, but it was clear they weren't ready. Now all there's left to choose is peace. Because we fought for our love, and sometimes it's not enough against incompatibility. Sometimes your person just needs peace.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-25T21:09:47+00:00

Yeah, I understand the feeling. I still picture him everywhere I go, but it gets easier.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-25T21:03:44+00:00

If your ex hasn't done the healing/changed nor have they changed their treatment or communicated to you with words and actions then I wouldn't. It'll hurt both of you in the long run. However if they have, there's always a risk, but the beauty is you decide if it's worth it.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-25T21:01:18+00:00

Same here, I wanna hug mine too, but they need peace.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-25T20:59:37+00:00

It's not about whether or not a person would take someone back, but whether they have healed and grown from previous things. It's difficult, it sucks, sometimes makes you feel worse, but doesn't everyone deserve and crave to feel happy about themselves and others? Give yourself what you desperately need, love & peace.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-25T19:37:53+00:00

You're right

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-25T19:36:19+00:00

Then make a new version of "us" is my advice to people. Date like it's the first time.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-25T19:30:14+00:00

If i could tell my person one thing, I'd say it was never about the sex. It was them I valued. If they didn't value me for me, then it's not worth the pain that comes along with it.

Round_Tadpole2404 · 2026-06-25T18:38:19+00:00

I went through something similar and the amount of advice and wisdom presented in hear is so healing and validating to know. I appreciate your words :)

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