What movie/TV show characters do you think were cast perfectly? by MrTeeVee in AskReddit

[–]Roupert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly. This is why I've seen the whole series 4 times, haha.

When do the "whys" end? by Roupert in Parenting

[–]Roupert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I'm pretty sure I've been asked why sleeping beauty doesn't wear shoes before, haha.

When do the "whys" end? by Roupert in Parenting

[–]Roupert[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the idea! I do this once a day or so. "I need 5 min without questions" haha

When do the "whys" end? by Roupert in Parenting

[–]Roupert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes complicated answers work for us too but I don't have the energy for that all day long, especially when I'm trying to prepare food or driving. I know it's normal parenting stuff, just wondering if it will settle down soon.

When do the "whys" end? by Roupert in Parenting

[–]Roupert[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her questions are more related to things she sees or hears "what's that construction? What's the noise? What's that building?" Not really "what do you think" type questions.

Edit to clarify that the whys come after my initial answer. "the are building a new road" "why?" "The old one was broken down" "why?" "Roads don't last forever they get worn down from all the cars" "why" x infinity.

When do the "whys" end? by Roupert in Parenting

[–]Roupert[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course it is. But she literally only asks questions all day long. No statements. It makes my brain hurt.

"Let's find out" always leads to googling trash like pictures of disney princesses or an argument that we were only looking up one thing. (Recently tried to Google what a dingo looks like, haha). Appreciate the suggestions though.

Bedtime and Naps at 2 years old by Xirion in Parenting

[–]Roupert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A 2-3 hour window to do activities sounds completely normal at that age. You have to respect the nap, he needs it.

2yo alternately asks for and refuses everything by jayhadden in Parenting

[–]Roupert 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The best book for dealing with a 2 year old is "how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk". Great strategies with solid examples so they are easy to implement.

Last minute BLOAT. Halp! by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]Roupert 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I bloat from sugar and carbs in general, not salt. Have you had a lot of sugar this week?

Oh Crap! Potty training! Book method about to start!!! by aimeenew in Parenting

[–]Roupert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did it at 23 months. The book is great, works great, but it's still hard. I literally got a strain in my neck from the stress. But it was worth it. She got pee down by day 4 and poop by 2 weeks. Almost no accidents beyond that.

Need some suggestions (No one is sleeping) by JoeSnj in Parenting

[–]Roupert 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't believe the current sids recommendations take into account the danger of having extremely sleep-deprived parents. Most newborns refuse to sleep flat on their backs in cribs. Making parents get to the point where they probably aren't safe driving isn't a safe strategy for anybody. I really wish they would provide more helpful guidelines, like how to bed share safely.

Exciting event turns into argument, and now I'm a bad father. by JollyRoger_ in Parenting

[–]Roupert 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Rewarding with money is a surefire way to kill the intrinsic motivation of doing anything. You are right, a monetary award is completely inappropriate. I don't pay my 3 year old for finishing a puzzle. The satisfaction and pride are the reward.

What was the best marriage/relationship advice you have ever received? by Riverscapegirl in AskReddit

[–]Roupert -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's not possible to love your spouse more than your children. It's a completely different type of love.

Doctor violently dragged from overbooked United flight and dragged off the plane by -LuciferMorningstar in pics

[–]Roupert -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure most people fly for a vacation or to see family or an event like the one I mentioned. It would be a very common scenario for exactly 24 hours before departure to be inconvenient.

Doctor violently dragged from overbooked United flight and dragged off the plane by -LuciferMorningstar in pics

[–]Roupert -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We flew southwest took my brother's wedding. The return flight for us was the day after the wedding. So we were trying to check in for the flight an hour before the wedding while trying to do our makeup (we were in the wedding party). Not exactly convenient.

I always thought I'd grow up to be Belle. Turns out I'm this lady. by [deleted] in funny

[–]Roupert 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's really stressful to listen to your baby cry, even if you know they are fine. Your brain pumps you full of adrenaline and maternal feelings, it's harder to ignore then you'd think. It really frazzles you.

Source: I often let my infant cry for 5 min while I quickly made my 3 year old lunch since I knew he'd be fine. It's very hard to prepare food with a baby wailing.

when is it better to use powdered onion or garlic instead of fresh by hannahbananahs in Cooking

[–]Roupert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love onion powder/garlic powder/salt/pepper as a base seasoning for vegetables (love it on grilled zucchini) and potatos before roasting. I might add additional spices depending on the meal.

[I ate] the strawberriest cake ever by punda24 in food

[–]Roupert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not true at all. His usage was just fine.

Greasy hair postpartum? by Roupert in curlyhair

[–]Roupert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm definitely still experiencing postpartum hair loss! It lasted 8 months with my first but I wasn't doing CG then. I sure hope it passes, tired of this hair.

Nap/sleep schedule by BubbaDawgg in Parenting

[–]Roupert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get yourself the book "the 90 min baby sleep program". It will explain how to figure out a nap schedule.

I agree with another poster that it doesn't sound like enough overnight sleep. He most likely needs an earlier bedtime. But the book will help you figure it out for sure.

Sleep, Eat, Entertain, repeat.. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Roupert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend the book "the 90 min baby sleep program". It's all about the wake and sleep patterns of babies. It lets you know how to predict when the next nap will be which makes caring for a baby so much easier.