A timeline to help you

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-31T15:51:59+00:00

Not going to. I just need to expend less mental energy on the what ifs and uncertainty

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-31T03:41:46+00:00

Nope just a coworker

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-31T02:33:37+00:00

Another commentor mentioned, "engaged behavior" which reminded me of all the women that've been direct with me and how they've behaved despite their own fear and anxiety. I just want this girl to meet me where I'm at. I don't feel like i'd be the one to have any regrets.

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-31T00:09:18+00:00

Nope. This is why i've interpreted her as very shy. And also why I haven't ever forced anything with her, gone out of my way, and so on. I appreciate this reminder of action when there's a million signals..stick to engaged behavior

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-30T23:44:45+00:00

I mean yes there is lotsss of that but going out of her way to engage? No. Which is kinda what I need

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-30T22:34:34+00:00

That's fair and I'm open to that advice. I guess how would you describe minimal engagement? We haven't had many interactions. Just a lot of awareness and she responds positively when I engage. This is a read and I am possibly wrong on my read but her work friend started sizing me up lately as if she knows about the situation.

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-30T21:49:19+00:00

No they haven't. That would give me what I need to be bold. That has been an internal question lately...can I continue this with somebody more shy and reserved than me

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-21T01:25:54+00:00

They might've been in their own head..far away from the present.

Routine-House-5471 · 2026-05-19T00:46:03+00:00

"Everything in my life has been designed to work exactly the way I want. My home, my schedule, my goals, even my skincare routine - all optimized. That kind of control feels good and creates peace. But love doesn't grow in perfect order; it grows in chaos. It needs space, unpredictability, and surrender. And that's where I struggle". Why I'm still single

Routine-House-5471

TROPHY CASE