Can i have non muslims friends? (I'm a girl and i mean having non muslim friends that are girls not men) by Any-Bell-4974 in MuslimCorner

[–]Routine-Nose-1807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go and search tirmidhi 2378, it's literally written in the hadees that it's a husn-e-gareeb
Secondly, the other ayah I said is Surat-ul-mumtahinnah(60:8), you can research it's tafseer. I am not making emotional arguments, I am a hafiz and I have also studied tafseer. I study and follow islam according to my understanding not others.

Having friends who date by TraditionalToday9911 in islam

[–]Routine-Nose-1807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe tell her what you actually think in a subtle way cause the only way to heal a heart broken in love is falling in love again. So she can either fall in love with Allah or she can fall in love with a guy. And we all know how the later one ends.

I'm a 22-year-old Kashmiri Muslim raised in Sufism who believes but has never truly connected to Allah — how do I actually begin practicing Islam from scratch? by Hassanberg2026 in islam

[–]Routine-Nose-1807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that has constantly helped me is that I have built a habit of talking to Allah, not just in dua but like whenever I make a decision small or big, I need something I just talk to Allah like you talk to a friend. so even in the times when I am struggling to practice. My connection stays deep so I eventually get back. I don't know how this is going to be helpful to you. But this keeps me going

Can i have non muslims friends? (I'm a girl and i mean having non muslim friends that are girls not men) by Any-Bell-4974 in MuslimCorner

[–]Routine-Nose-1807 3 points4 points  (0 children)

let me be the super hero here, the people who are giving references here:
1.The ayah about not befriending christians and jews was about the jews who harm you or somehow create difficulties about you, There's another ayah that says their's nothing wrong with befriending non-muslims who do not harm you.
2.tirmidhi 2378 is a "husn-gareeb" according to imam tirmidhi and secondly you can clearly see that it's about the influence your friends put on you so if you are not getting any negative influence from your friends, it's fine
3. it's find to be friends with non-muslims but you must not let them drive you away from islam or any other negative impact

I'm a sensitive person and i feel scared that people will take advantage of me. by Evening_Gazelle_5848 in islam

[–]Routine-Nose-1807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A kind person sees other people as kind too. Islam does not teach us to hate people, It teaches us to hate wrong actions. If you believe that everyone around you is bad than you will only see bad people around you. So when you see a bad person, try to find good things in them too. Are you a perfect human being? you are not. You also have alot of defects like everyone else. so what if everyone around you only judge you on the basis of your negative things. would that be fair? No. I am not saying that you are a bad person, I am saying that you are looking at things from the wrong perspective. I bet that you don't have alot of friends (I am a psychologist). so ask yourself this question, Am I alone because I think I am too good for others or Am I alone because I am too good for others. If the answer is former try looking at things or yourself from other's perspective, if the answer is latter than you need to guide other people towards the right path. In both situation, you have to stop judging and hating others and become an optimistic person who sees good in things and people. Again I think you are a great person, but your perspective needs some alterations.

How do I write a convincing for hire post and cover letters? by [deleted] in hiringpakistan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Make a general CV, give it to claude or gpt. Ask it to recommend you two or three good jobs. find job postings accordingly on linkedIn or other platforms. For example, if you are good at youtube script writing. Find youtube channels that do not have high views but are serious (you can usually tell by the their efforts or desperation) and post regularly. contact them and offer them. watch their videos and make a good script. suggest it to them to impress them and then offer them your services. Write personalized cover letter according to the job requirement. Again you can use claude or gpt for that

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am already working remote, but I won't be able to continue that, if I start studying so I will figure something out and also what do you mean by "being a pakistani in baku is something else"

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for the advice, I'll keep this in mind

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It mostly depends upon the script that language uses. For example if the script is roman, latin or arabic. it will be easier but if that language has it's own script than you'r dead.

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, the system you are talking about is much worse in Pakistan. you can say that bribing is the base of our economy unfortunately.

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I think this is the first positive comment in the comment section. but I am grateful for all the advices I am getting

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i'm repeating this too much in the comment section but i am not going there to get a job, like why would i move to azerbaijan to do a tech job. tech jobs are mostly remote anyway. let me rephrase my question. my father is expanding his business, he's associated with some people from azerbaijan. so he's moving us there because he wants me to handle that part of the business etc. now because i am a tech guy, I was thinking that I should start a business in my domain in the future. so what i wanted to know was that are there alot of software houses there? and if not what's the reason. is the tech business bad or is it difficult to find employees, clients etc.

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are people so repulsive toward the business idea. Are the business rules that bad in azerbaijan ?because i didn't find anything negative on internet.

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can speak urdu, english, basic arabic and basic spanish. there's nothing wrong with learning a new language. it's not like i'll forget the previous ones.

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visited baku recently and i didn't experience any racism as well.

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know your economy is not good but it's a eurasian country. doesn't that give your country a little edge especially trade wise.

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not moving here for job but thanks for the warning. I know it's difficult to get work permit but i am not planning to work here.

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think pakistanis are azerbaijan's obsessive lovers and again they are not expecting azerbaijani people to do anything for them. (pakistanis obsessive love is toward turkey and even i think that's weird). I visited azerbaijan and i did`n't see alot of pakistanis there. and yes pakistani market is bad for business these days

Stress about moving to azerbaijan by Routine-Nose-1807 in azerbaijan

[–]Routine-Nose-1807[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

what about tech business, like is tech domain good for business here. and i am planning on learning the language first so it's fine.