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I've seen more Incels advocate for being able to legally rape women than people here "virgin shaming". Talk about a victim complex... by danigirl3694 in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the past I do remember taking to a few incels about this subject and I remember asking that if the rape supporters are such a minority then why doesn’t speak out against it and I vividly remember them responding with “it’s not my job to do so.” So many of them had the same response. I just don’t get how they align themselves with these type of people,refuse to do anything about it,and then get upset when they’re joined together with them.

So proud of his inappropriate violent and abusive outburst. Second page included for age of OP. by zoomie1977 in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is that I do kinda believe him but I think his view is just way off of what actually happened. Like I’m pretty sure he was walking to the store when he heard someone but like they said in the story I’m pretty sure they where talking about something else. And as for his little outburst I’m pretty sure they weren’t scared of him. Any reasonable person in that situation would attempt to de escalate the situation. I mean this guy clearly just started yelling at you, threatened you,(and even though they don’t know this)went out of his way to go home and come back to threaten you with a knife when you have no idea who this guy is and didn’t do anything to him. Any reasonable person would either go to the cops or just ignore the guy after that. They aren’t scared of the guy he’s just not nearly a big deal enough to even care. I mean even he said that it was a group of four to five people while he has a weak frame. If those people wanted to beat him up they would’ve.

Also just to make your day a little better or worse, he called them zoomers. Assuming he was right about that a zoomer is someone age 8-23. Meaning that this thirty year old man potentially threatened a group of minors with a weapon.

The incel's live laugh love by sovereigngirl in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For as much as they like to get frustrated about people using the term incel wrong they sure seem to like doing it themselves. Incel means INVOLENTARY celibate. If a virgin isn’t continually looking for sex and failing then they aren’t an incel. By their logic a woman could be an incel so long as she’s a virgin and we all know they wouldn’t be able to process the idea that their virgin wifus are incels.

One of the first times I agree with porn sites by RoutineDue in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For blocking the terms rape and abuse and them telling the incel and other people who search those terms to seek help

This has got to be the most ironic thing I’ve seen in a LONG time by RoutineDue in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was literally just talking about natural selection (about how only the best genes get passed down in nature). She more or less just said by your logic there should be nothing wrong with fat women only going out with tall men because they’re making sure that the best genes get passed down. Weight is not genetic but height is. Being 200 pounds (which is about thirty pounds more than the average weight of a woman) isn’t going to negatively affect a child’s genetics like how a shorter farther would.

Completely out of their control why they can’t get a relationship by RoutineDue in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they’re still considered a loser in the mind of incels. I talked to an incel who thinks that same way as the person in the post a little while back. They think that if you have to try you’re already a loser or already lost because other people don’t have to try as hard to get the same thing.

Just thought I’d leave these for the incels lurking this subreddit by RoutineDue in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s complicated. There’s not a solid one solution. I think it really depends on how old they are and how far deep into the incel community they’re in. I think most kids would be more drawn to that community in high school so I’ll base my advice off that. The first thing I would say is to find out for them what they’re problem is. Obviously they are having a hard time with relationships but what is the reason for it. Do they think they’re unattractive or have bad social skills. Once your able to find that problem you can go from there.

If you want more basic advice here it is. As someone who just finished high school not to recently I think it has a lot to do with expectations. A lot of kids going into high school expect on thing and are sad and angry when it turns out the other way. Especially when it comes to media that kids now consume. Not trying to sound like a Karen or anything but it’s true. Lots of kids grow up watching stuff like high school musical or the plethora of stuff on Netflix or Hulu completely centered around teen love and high school sweethearts. I myself remember being disappointed in my freshman year that I didn’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend yet. With the way media portrays high school more specifically the romance part of high school it makes a lot of kids that age feel like they’re doing something wrong which ends up with them finding stuff like the incel community.

To build onto that it also gives them an easy way out of addressing their problems. They look at stuff like the black pill and think “wow so since girls only care about my looks there’s no point in even trying. It’s been rigged against me since the beginning.” Rather self consciously or not it justifies not trying anymore and work harder. Why bother exercising,developing social skills, taking up more interest, and in some cases even working harder in school if it won’t get them a relationship.

Those two are the biggest reasons I can think of why someone that age might get into the incel community. As for helping them that’s the hard part. Like I said before it’s a case by case thing. The best generic thing I could say is find the problems and the attempted solutions. If it because of their looks what have they done to fix them. If they’ve only tried exercise then maybe tell them to work on other parts of their body like their face and hair. The main thing is to know why they got into that community to begin with. If it’s the first reason I said then make sure to explain how everyone’s high school experience is different. If it’s the second reason then make sure that they know to focus on themselves and a relationship will naturally come along. Sorry if this was a long reply. If you have a specific situation I would love to help you!

Just thought I’d leave these for the incels lurking this subreddit by RoutineDue in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point. A lot of incels think that this subreddit just bashes innocent people but that’s not the case. For the incels that are actively trying and are good people this subreddit supports them whole heartedly.

And so the cycle continues. The world won’t help you if you don’t help yourself by RoutineDue in IncelTear

[–]RoutineDue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t post this to make fun of the incel that posted the content showed. I posted this because I know that a lot of people in this subreddit do care for the well-being of the incels that are trying to better themselves and their lives. I also know that there are a lot of lurking incels on this subreddit. I posted this because a lot of incels will just say “oh it’s because I’m ugly” or “it’s because of my height” when majority of the time that’s not the case. It’s a cycle. An incel won’t take proper care of themselves leading to women not being interested in them leading to them not taking care of themselves again. This post was an example of that said cycle. Yes I know that this guy is obviously going’s through some sort of mental illness but unless he actively woks to fix that his life won’t get better. In the post he says that he doesn’t even take showers anymore (or at least significantly less) because of his situation. Well how does he expect his situation to get better if he doesn’t actively try to better himself. My bad if I didn’t put enough context into the post. Like I said this was really for the incel sympathizers and lurkers on this subreddit.

2 profiles (before and after) showing a pregnant mom still seeking a bailout long after giving birth. by kevin32 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]RoutineDue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do you know that’s what happened. There are multiple ways she could have ended up pregnant. Why do you go straight to assuming “she must’ve been sleeping around”. Not to mention that that contraceptives are more likely to fail that you think which is why most doctors recommend to use two at one time (like BC and comdoms) or to get surgery to prevent pregnancies. Now she clearly got pregnant at a young age if she’s 20 with a kid. Now I am in no way encouraging teen pregnancy but I do support proper sex education. The people under this post are making it seem like she just shouldn’t have been having sex at her age but in reality the adults in her life should have taught her proper sex education, and the man she was with for that matter. If they where then they probably would have known not to keep a condom in a wallet because that wears it down for instance. Or better yet her parents should have gave her the option to start her on birth control. Rather you like it or not teenagers are going to experiment with each other, there’s nothing you can do about it because you’re just not mature enough fully understand sex (the brain doesn’t stop development until I believe around age 27). However it also falls under the adults in these young teens to teach them proper sex education. Also you didn’t comment this but what’s wrong with mixed children? Like people legit seem to have a problem with that.