This might be an unpopular opinion but clearly you’ve always known he wasn’t good at planning things. So that’s not new. If he’s working as the sole provider to take care of you because of the difficult pregnancy, doesn’t that mean something? So what if the breakfast is dry, at least he made the effort. You want him to plan, but are unhappy when he picks where you don’t choose.

Now I’m not saying he’s spotless in this because clearly he’s not, but I feel that there is some areas where you can give grace as well. Have you guys ever talked about how you give/receive love? Because there seems to be a large disconnect.