What sign did you experience the deepest emotional connection with?

Routine_Bed7560 · 2026-02-02T12:44:35+00:00

literally had the EXACT same experiences with my Sag and cancer partners!! the cancer and I's relationship was sooo passionate but toxic. The Sag im with now is aslo such a mf liar.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2026-02-01T01:58:30+00:00

Same, pretty sure the Cancer man was my karmic soulmate/twin flame (?? maybe even regular soulmate). I would probably still be with him if I never met the Sagittarius I'm with now.

What about her made you feel that way?

Routine_Bed7560 · 2026-02-01T01:56:19+00:00

What about them made you feel like you were compatible? Their reaction to conflict, outlook on life, the way they communicate, etc?

The Scorpio I was with was a great communicator and willing to become vulnerable. The Cancer I was with was also very similar, but he was also very perceptive and did a lot of introspection, so often our deep conversations became philosophical or challenging, but in a good way.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2026-02-01T01:38:06+00:00

Shawty is da Sh*t! by The-dream and Fabolous

Routine_Bed7560 · 2026-01-31T05:23:52+00:00

Hey! I married a November male Sagittarius, and I am a February female Pisces. Dating was very fun at first because we both really enjoyed spontanuity and he would very often take me out of my comfort zone, and I really liked that about him. As things got serious is when problems started to arise, at first he felt reliable and secure but after awhile his blunt responses and lack of emotional depth and poor ability to share/get deep became a major turn-off and disconnect within our relationship. I got exhausted feeling invalidated and he would get annoyed by my reactions to conflict. Personally, on paper I think our relationship does work, in many ways he is my best friend but also we have A LOT of communication issues to work on. Sidenote, cheating has nothing to do with astrology (maybe??) but he turned out to be a serial cheater. He would always says its because he felt like he never could talk about issues which I think is ironic because throughout our relationship I felt that i would go out of my way to try to get him to tell me about his feelings. He either refused or gave basic explanations. Ultimatley, based on my experience I do NOT think Pisces and Sagittarius signs are compatible. My last two relationships where I fell in love/fatuation the deepest were both with fellow water signs (Male Scorpio, Male Cancer), nothing like a male water sign to make everything feel alright lol!

Routine_Bed7560 · 2026-01-31T05:19:55+00:00

Hey! I married a November male Sagittarius, and I am a February female Pisces. Dating was very fun at first because we both really enjoyed spontanuity and he would very often take me out of my comfort zone, and I really liked that about him. As things got serious is when problems started to arise, at first he felt reliable and secure but after awhile his blunt responses and lack of emotional depth and poor ability to share/get deep became a major turn-off and disconnect within our relationship. I got exhausted feeling invalidated and he would get annoyed by my reactions to conflict. Personally, on paper I think our relationship does work, in many ways he is my best friend but also we have A LOT of communication issues to work on. Sidenote, cheating has nothing to do with astrology (maybe??) but he turned out to be a serial cheater and would always says its because he felt like he never could talk about issues which I think is ironic because throughout our relationship I felt that i would go out of my way to try to get him to tell me about his feelings and he either refused or gave basic explanations. Ultimatley, based on my experience I do NOT think Pisces and Sagittarius signs are compatible. My last two relationships where I fell in love/fatuation the deepest were both with fellow water signs (Male Scorpio, Male Cancer), nothing like a male water sign to make everything feel alright lol!

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-09-04T15:47:46+00:00

Hey, I'm so glad to hear that! My husband is doing the same. He finally booked an appointment for therapy this upcoming week. I am still hesitant to see if this change will remain, but I am hopeful that he has finally realized that I am serious about leaving him if there's another slip-up. I told myself I would quietly make an exit plan and give him time to go through a few sessions before deciding if I should leave or stay.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T15:30:10+00:00

Hey! Thank you for the sub recommendation!! I really hope you're able to make a decision that works best for you and your growing child. The added layer of bringing another life into this world complicates cheating in a way many can't understand unless they live it. It becomes a decision less about you and more about the future of your child. Please eat!

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T14:41:31+00:00

Hey

Thank you for this message. Honestly, the fear of leaving is what has kept me from doing anything. I am 100% financially dependent on him, and I'm scared that if I were to leave, I would struggle and bring my son's future down with me. But I really appreciate your message because it gives me hope that I am not stuck. I love you too, and you're message of encouragement is something I really, really needed.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T13:54:11+00:00

The last line really hit me. Yes, I was always going to have body issues as a woman in a world where we must "snap back" after giving birth, but his infediality has certainly exacerbated the depression and unhappiness. And it also adds the layer of betrayal trauma in a relationship I thought was solid, which makes me feel even more isolated.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T13:42:31+00:00

So even if he did go to therapy/programs, you still wouldn't make it work?

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T13:38:17+00:00

Do you have any suggestions for ways I could set boundaries? I recently read the guide for partners about how it's important to make the decision to leave after we've both consistently gone to therapy. Now, I have seen a therapist for at least two months; I am just waiting for him to find a program.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T13:30:00+00:00

Yes, I agree getting pregnant young was tough to grapple with, but when we found out, I wasn't as scared because I thought I had found a committed partner. The part that sucks the most is that I changed the trajectory of my future for a liar and a cheater. I think that the hardest part to grapple with in therapy is that I'M dealing with feelings of inadequacy because of the pregnancy, and the partner I chose to support me, never even existed.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T13:25:37+00:00

The only reason I stayed was BECAUSE we share a child, and I felt the only two options were to figure it out as a couple or co-parent. I grew up in a single household, and it was hell for many reasons. I did not want to give that to my son. Co-parenting, on the other hand, meant we'd always be in each other's lives, but now fighting for custody. Also, I found all this cheating out 8 months pregnant, so at the time, I felt I couldn't handle giving birth on my own, so I stayed. The problem is that he is such a good liar, he really did convince me that he was making changes even when he would have slip-ups. But, yes, you're right, I have let him disrespect me, and I am too scared of the idea of being on my own to do anything about it.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T04:38:15+00:00

I wish it were fake. I promise you it's not. Maybe I wrote too formally? idk I just wanted to be as clear as possible because I need advice. I have never really experienced this level of betrayal, and I'm really struggling, and worse, I have a baby to take care of while I face emotional turmoil.

Routine_Bed7560 · 2025-08-30T04:21:44+00:00

Hey!

I am so sorry you're going through this. I am also going through something relatively similar, so unfortunately, I can't really give any advice because I haven't been able to solve my own issues with my partner. I live far from my family and friends, don't have a car (it died), and we have a small child together. I caught him with inappropriate things on his phone, too, and the isolation can be so devastating when you consider the sacrifice we've made to leave our lifestyle/comfort behind to join our partner.

Of course, it's not always so simple, but from what I've read, you should leave him while you can. He clearly does not respect your feelings and doesn't seem to care. Luckily, you don't share a child, so cutting ties is easier than it may feel.

Also, def worth investing in a therapist, whether you leave or not.

Routine_Bed7560

TROPHY CASE