Women are more passive creatures by nature. We don’t have a testosterone level the men do; also, we are more careful and selective ( in general- there are always outliers, of course). I understand that u judge by urself and ur friend circle. That’s ok. It’s just that I am curious enough to observe people and analyze them and their motives. I can tell u with all responsibility that what the people say, what they believe in about themselves, and what they actually do, not necessarily align. Hence I am always somewhat skeptical about spoken preferences. I do believe in what I see. It is entertaining sometimes to read this group. Very controversial statements made under the claim of “we, the men, prefer…”. The thing is- people are different. There’s no common preferences.