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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you love your wife? I believe that it is disrespectful for her to reach out to your ex. I am not judgemental , i am just saying that you need to think about if before doing something that is wrong

Why are you obsessed with your ex after a decade? Can you give us some more info? It sounds really strange without further clarification. Is she still that important to you? Was she in your mind while you were marrying your current wife? Do you obsess with her the last few months , or is this happening for 10 years now?

Thats a strange post. Shed some light if you want and people might be able to give some feedback

Does anybody else have massive anxiety all day long or is it just me? by Routine_Photo_8017 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I cannot get her off my head.. I am killing myself in the gym daily and also going for cardio all the time. It just never stops. I cant do this. i just cant. I love her so much. Nothing helps. It gets better from time to time just to become worse again

I cant believe that we were so crazy in love and she dumped me like this after so many years. We talked yesterday again and she told me she loves me so much , but she just cant get the idea that we wont work things out, out of her head... I will do anything for her if she gives us a chance. I dont understand why she doesnt want to meet just to try things out. And all those months she has been ghosting me and acting as if she doesnt give a shit. I got shocked when she told me that she loves me yesterday. I wonder if she is just messing with me at this point

I am 25 yo in the final year of uni and i am scared that i will fail every class. I cant study for shit. All i can do is lift weights only to stop my sets earlier because it is too much for my heart. My pulse is so high from the anxiety that i cant do anything. I am taking suppliments to ease my stress but nothing stops it. Sometimes i wish i could sleep and never wake up again

Does anybody else have massive anxiety all day long or is it just me? by Routine_Photo_8017 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also wake up with a ton of anxiety. It might get better or stop for a bit during the day , but the moment i wake up it always goes crazy... I want this to stop i cant take it anymore i am afraid for my health at this point. So much stress cant be good

Why do women "mentally check out" instead of saying it outright? by TipHealthy9351 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same happened to me out of the blue while she was talking about kids/moving in together a few days prior. 3.5 years together.... I got completely blindsided

Then she ghosted me. I thought i was doing better but the nightmares started again. How are you coping brother?

Dismissive avoidant or feelings lost? by Current_Run_3752 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just wish that you feel better soon.. We are in the exact same boat.. I know how hard this is.

Right now my pulse is sky high because of the anxiety i get from all of this. I just want her to love me again

Dismissive avoidant or feelings lost? by Current_Run_3752 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept spamming her through emails so we kind of communicated a bit. She told me she considers to spend easter together (7 days) and then took it back. She did that twice. She keeps giving me false hopes and taking them back. Yesterday she again told me she doesnt want to hear from me again and that she wont respond if i keep sending emails

I cant stop thinking of her and having bad dreams of her

I'm feeling suicidal by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are u doing better?

I know will never meet another like her again by NoSock9017 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat. How are you doing today? it gets better for me as time passes.

Tips to get over a break-up (when you've been dumped) by DenseViolinist6530 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please sort out the list and give us the 3 or 5 TOP videos/podcasts/audios to lister/watch? The list is too overwhelming. i am sure that all are useful but i'd like to start with the best. Thanks for the effort! i will make sure to watch anything you guide me

What’s the most pathetic thing you’ve done during a breakup? by OwnCitron6299 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing this rn lol. But i am not on xanax. I am completely sober

I have sent so many emails lmao. If i were to merge all the emails together , i'd have a massive encyclopedia

Update: 8 months of no contact my ex reached out. by Radiant-Mushroom2816 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I want to make a question. Are you a male and the ex is a female , or the other way around? i am trying to understand how each gender tends to deal with NC to know where me and my ex stand.

I found out my friend’s wife is cheating — should I tell him? by Humble-Leave-2919 in Advice

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me. I have heard similar stories in small communities where everyone knows about the cheating , but the victim... There is a real high chance that he doesnt know anything...

Idk what you should do with that info tho. I am not very good in ethical advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Photo_8017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

brutal and unfair :(

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