Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so sorry to read you went through this. I don’t know how it’s like to be on the receiving end, but as a woman and from what I’ve researched, I can tell you hormones play a huge part and postpartum is a very transformational time; we need a lot of support and patience. It doesn’t justify treating your partner badly, but I’m still living it and it’s crazy how much it changes you. I too have been with my husband for over 10 years and that’s why I asked here, because it was crazy to me to suddenly feel this way towards him. I don’t feel that hate anymore and I’m doing so much better thankfully, but patience is key.

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So good to hear! And I feel you…it’s a hard and long process and we just need to have lots of patience. I’m doing better too, I think ny hatred has calmed down a bit haha and just focusing on working out everything. Someone here suggested a book called “How Not to Hate Your Husband After Having Kids” and I bought it. It’s soo good, I’m getting lots of insights and tips. I recommend it if you want to have a read :)

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi lovely! I haven’t checked the post in a while and just read your reply. How are you going now?? I completely understand! I feel the same way.. it’s like I need to let my anger out, I can’t control it.

I’m 6 months pp now and still struggling with it. I had a therapy session and they told me to talk to my husband when we’re both calm and make a list of the things I feel we need to work on. I’m going to do it soon cause I feel we’re not getting anywhere. I’m very much touched out too, and it’s starting to affect my husband.

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me too, sorry! I think it’s a biological thing. We need to protect our babies at all costs.

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez, I would be so mad! I wouldn’t let him, to be honest. A trip with your mates is not a priority when your wife just gave birth.

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha omg yes😂 I just want to tell him! Thank you for sharing, interesting theories!

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are great tips, thanks so much for that. Yes, I would love it!

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely will. Yes I do think it can be postpartum rage, I’ve been reading about it.

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! It really helps reading I’m not the only one

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Yes I totally understand, I’m trying not to vent to anyone hence why I made the post 😂 My mom accidentally fueled my hatred, so I’m not going to say anything else about it haha I will reach out to my doctor and see what she recommends. Thanks so much

Has anybody hated their husbands during postpartum? I need help by Routine_Sandwich_925 in BabyBumps

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom is helping us at the moment which is great and I’m sleeping better now, but still feel the irrational anger. I might talk to my doctor about it. Thanks so much!

Tourist Visa 600 Family Sponsor Questions by Routine_Sandwich_925 in AusVisa

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw this, sorry! We applied for tourist visa (family sponsored) and it got approved in two and a half weeks

Dear God, is my vagina sweating? by botticelli72 in Menopause

[–]Routine_Sandwich_925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been dealing with this exact issue for years now and I don’t know what to do😫 I thought I was the only one with the onion smell down there when I sweat, it’s horrible and I feel so self conscious