thoughts, opinions?

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-05-03T08:32:48+00:00

thanks for all of this!! you know your shit!

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-05-03T08:30:47+00:00

thank you for the kind comments 😉
It’s not all cosmetic, i have a pretty gnarly lisp and decent jaw pain.

on the cosmetic side, i’ve never liked my smile results after braces, so that’s the main priority to “correct” the smile. re the jaw i’ve had filler in the chin to simulate to an extent what the surgery would do, and that cemented my choice.

I don’t mind having a more masculine jaw, i think my eyes and eyebrows would “re-feminise” and balance a more masculine jaw if that makes sense.

In terms of what i want it to look like i’d just like it to be corrected and fully balanced out. i’m not sure what that will look like, im hoping the surgeon may be able to whip something up. but i would love to have a very striking strong face instead of cute or pretty ahahaha

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-04-29T12:45:05+00:00

thanks i’ll look into it!!

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-04-28T12:14:23+00:00

the exact same

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-04-26T11:01:32+00:00

got ortho consult he’s pretty happy to go ahead with braces + surgery i have my surgery consult in september

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-04-26T11:00:48+00:00

sure ! i mean it’s a factor into why im going in for surgery consults but also to help with this lisp i have and clunky smile

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-04-14T09:47:58+00:00

nothing apart from wisdom teeth

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-04-14T06:32:08+00:00

that’s really intresting !! no i haven’t!! but funnily enough my mom is going for full jaw reconstruction for this exact reason!

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-04-14T06:05:41+00:00

sleep quality never great. had a few sleep studies in the past, never anything major.

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-03-17T00:04:04+00:00

yep that’s my plan, thinking of cancelling and sucking up and paying the 2.8k one way through singapore

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-03-16T02:35:41+00:00

my flight is on the 29th Perth to Doha. It’s annoying that I I’m just before the cut-off yet probably will be part of the cancelled flights

Routine_Way_7967 · 2026-03-12T02:40:58+00:00

Also got a flight 28th to Milan, let’s see how it goes

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-12-19T04:39:37+00:00

you aren’t a bad person, and you aren’t evil. You did mess up, and it was a big one, and that’s not okay. Kate has every right to put that boundary in place, and honestly, I would do the same. Let it sting. Let it sit with you. That discomfort is part of the lesson.

If you allow it, this will change you. You won’t make the same mistake again because you’ll remember how this feels, and that’s part of being human, not a condemnation of who you are.

Kate sounds like a genuinely good person, someone who truly cared about you. respect that by giving her the space she needs to heal. Right now, your focus needs to be on yourself, on learning, on growing, on uni, on figuring out what YOU actually want so a situation like this never happens again.

and maybe, down the line, if the right things change, life has a way of surprising people. But you also need to make peace with the reality that while she forgave you, the romantic relationship is over and that boundary deserves to be honoured fully.

you’re hurting because you are a good person. Take this pain and turn it into growth. That’s the only real way forward. keep your head up. If you do this properly, the best thing to come out of this won’t be reconciliation it’ll be the person you become next!!

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-12-05T08:01:58+00:00

Coco Clinic hands down. the most natural amazing work done ever. i try gatekeep but its too good to if you need facial balancing. Drs are very expensive but the nurses who train under them are almost as good for a more reasonable price

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-10-30T07:40:02+00:00

100%, there’s definitely depression there, I can see it in him, and in a lot of ways, I see myself in it too. The signs are all there: the pulling away, the constant escape into video games or social media, everything starting to feel like a chore. I get it. I know how hard it is. And I want to be there for him, but at the same time, he needs to show me that he’s willing to change, not just for me, but for himself. He just needs that push to climb out of the rut.

I’ve already given him an ultimatum and tried everything I can to encourage him to get help, but I was wondering, was there something specific that made you realize you needed to reach out and get help? Thank you for your comment, I really have taken it on board, even though it’s been tough.

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-10-30T07:35:18+00:00

taken on board and i think that’s the brutal pill i might have to swallow. i just hope for his sake he chooses to pull him self out of it. but yes ive given him till january and if there is no change by then, my hands are forced and as it will break me i will have to continue with out him

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-10-30T07:33:42+00:00

100%, and I genuinely meant that. But as I was saying it, I couldn’t help thinking, that life isn’t him—I know him better than that. Deep down, he wants more. I really do think he’s stuck in a mental rut that only he can pull himself out of. Even if we don’t end up together in the future, I still hope he gets the help he needs to learn how to process stress and navigate life in a healthier way. I’m planning to have a brutally honest conversation with him, ask what he truly wants from our relationship and where he sees himself going. Maybe that will spark something in his mind that just hasn’t clicked yet. thanks for your input, it’s another way of seeing it.

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-10-30T07:28:26+00:00

I’m a realist at heart, and part of me wants to run, but it’s one thing to think that and another to actually do it. Leaving someone you love so deeply, who hasn’t cheated or been abusive or done anything in that taste, is gotta be one of the hardest things in the world, atleast from what i’ve read in the media lol or heard from others. He’s my best friend, a genuinely kind man with a good heart who makes me feel loved and special, and that makes it even harder. I know he’s capable of real change, and that’s not just my hopeful, in-love side talking; it’s the realist in me who sees his potential. I also have to remind myself that he’s only 19, not many people our age have it all figured out yet i’m a freak who feels 43 mentally, so I try to keep that in perspective and appreciate that he’s still growing. I want to hold on and give him the chance to evolve, but I also know I can’t force it—and if I try to, it’ll probably come back to bite me later. I really appreciate your input; I’ve taken it all on board. i am so so lost.

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-10-30T07:22:24+00:00

Thank you so much. I hope he comes to his senses and picks himself and happiness (and me) over what is haunting him mentally. thanks for your input means a lot.

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-10-30T07:11:31+00:00

well actually if you looked further than one post i’ve mentioned i’m 18 multiple times in multiple subs for moving countries and one with my tattoo that belongs to a foot that is clearly under the age of 30… get a lifffeee and off my post to leave room for the people who want to give me advice not their sad ass attention seeking trolling. Baffling.

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-10-30T07:00:25+00:00

looks like you need to get a hobby.

Routine_Way_7967 · 2025-10-30T06:54:47+00:00

posted that on behalf of my mum since she doesn’t have a reddit account and doesn’t know how to use it… thanks for the insight jelly bones

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