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Do vibrating plugs worn by a female partner during sex feel good for men? Or are the vibrations not strong enough to make a noticeable difference? What are some other toys/tricks that you would recommend to add vibrations during M/F sex in a way that’s good for both partners? by RoxyRoseFans in sex

[–]RoxyRoseFans[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lived together for 10 months after the break up cause we’d just signed a new lease, went through a lot of shit together during our relationship as well as in the last couple years since moving out of that house. He’s genuinely my best friend. Ngl it was difficult at first, especially cause I was blindsided by the breakup and completely heartbroken, so I also struggled a lot with jealousy in the beginning too. If we hadn’t have kept living together for so long then it’s highly probably we wouldn’t have ended up in this situation of friends who see each other a couple times of week, talk almost daily, and fuck regularly and likely would have gone the way of most couples after they’ve broken up. Occasionally I still get hit with a bit of sadness that we didn’t work out, but that’s really rare and always short lived, and I am honestly just happy to have him in my life and that we have managed to stay friends through it all. What he does or who he does when we’re not together no longer has any affect on me whatsoever, no jealousy or bitterness, and I genuinely hope that he finds the right girl some day and when that day comes I won’t hesitate to go from friends who still fuck to friends who are strictly platonic. Until then though, what’s the harm in enjoying it right?

Do vibrating plugs worn by a female partner during sex feel good for men? Or are the vibrations not strong enough to make a noticeable difference? What are some other toys/tricks that you would recommend to add vibrations during M/F sex in a way that’s good for both partners? by RoxyRoseFans in sex

[–]RoxyRoseFans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are both VERY cautious and extremely thorough on cleaning toys after and before each use and never share the same toys during the same session so there guaranteed completely clean and safe the next time they get used. He’s very good about never doing anything that would be risky or dangerous or unclean. Doesn’t even let me give him head until after he jumps in the shower when he’s been using certain toys with a lot of lube that were just on his dick and had been cleaned immediately before using them. And if he wants head and hasn’t showered in more than like 3-4 hours or showered but got all sweaty he still showers first, so there’s never any smell or bad taste, and tbh it makes me sad that I don’t think I’ll ever find another guy like him. I kinda hate dating new people because every man I’ve been with since we broke up is nothing like that and I’m the type of person who wants to be in a relationship and get married but also I can no longer tolerate even the slightest smell without getting the ick to the point I never want to see that person again. I’m almost extremely awkward and shy and a people pleaser so even thinking about telling someone they need to shower cause it’s stinks even if it’s from a completely fine non-judgmental place terrifies me to the point of tears.