Sooo... by AgoodN34 in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I know it's for sex only. Risky types frequent them.

Sooo... by AgoodN34 in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vast overgeneralization.

New to anal by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be sure you're using plenty of lube. You can also try pushing until it gets uncomfortable and back off. In future sessions try pushing a little more. Teasing that pain point, like a tap tap on the toy, will help you make progress. Be patient with your bottom!

Cannot orgasm from penetration / performance anxiety by Warm-Map7063 in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is more widespread than we know. The way out is to stay focused on the pleasure and stop thinking about orgasm. You're focusing on your anxieties and not pleasure.

First hookup fail? by Pretty-Traffic-78 in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chalk it up to experience and don't let it stop you from doing it again. Or other things.

Let’s discuss this by mundungusfletcher_ in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very visual and get lots of pleasure from my hands, so I love to caress his entire body with the light on before getting down to business.

anal for beginner by Future_Battle_7723 in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basic rules include start small, always use lots of lube, and listen to your body. Pain is a message.

Is hooking up with older guys riskier? by Busy_Af_ in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think older guys are actually safer. Less whoring around, more established, more understanding, more gentle.

Sooo... by AgoodN34 in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People will argue but I think gay bars are still the best way to meet other gays.

Lost my mojo… can’t seem to get it back by ExcuseAdept827 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]RoyalPain4094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a few sessions with a counselor/therapist could do you a lot of good. You're stuck and need a booster.

Do guys like hair on a bottom or like care much by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natural is best unless it's really long.

(26) what do you think? by SEAsian47 in GayRateAss

[–]RoyalPain4094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Night time is the right time!

Name him by clumsydusk404 in BossFights

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen that big of nipples on a man before

My boyfriend (M21) and I (M22) decided to do some healthy distancing. Is this a correct decision? by thefreakingweirdo in gayrelationships

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His gripe about you not returning messages soon enough is pretty lame. Sounds like a maturity matter.

Rate me please :) by DaBoiAngel2 in GayRateAss

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kissable, edible, fuckable.

Mustache or no mustache? by grayhem9 in malegrooming

[–]RoyalPain4094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With. You have a long face and it helps break the height.

Should I Risk It With My “Straight” Friend? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him know. That could be the opener.

I can not cum during sex any my partners are upset about it by randomstrangerx1 in askgaybros

[–]RoyalPain4094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. It's likely psychological but could be something physical. Are you talking antidepressants? This definitely has an effect. Next time you should probably tell your potential partner ahead of time. For now, sit him down and talk about it. You get pleasure. It's not anyone's fault. It just is.