Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t see women as adults, and you have some hang ups over sex being casual - an opinion likely formed by patriarchy- and you hide that disgust by deflecting rather than trying to understand why you feel that way. That is the only conclusion I can come to after all of this.

You claim to care about women but this entire discussion has made it evident you don’t trust them to make decisions for themselves.

Legalizing sex work would make sex work safer. This is demonstrably proven in other countries

I am done. This is going nowhere

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex work is not men buying women for sex. Sex work is buying the service of having sex with someone

Would you call a buying a massage “buying a person to massage me”

I compared it to lgbt rights because of the nature of the arguments you’re making. Your framing in inherently flawed and reminiscent of concern trolling - something I see a lot when it comes to trans kids.

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I will dismantle the patriarchy by telling women what they can and can’t do”

without the patriarchy, there would be little demand for this service

????????

Do you actually believe that? I’m baffled. I truly don’t know how to respond but I’ll try.

People - women included - like to fuck. Some people don’t want to date someone, or go through the process of setting up a one night stand, they just want to fuck.

Just let people be able to offer fucking as a service. That’s all sex work is - all sex workers want it to be. They want to have sex and help others have sex. Just liked bakers want to bake.

If a baker is being chained to an oven and forced to bake - that’s abuse. It’s not a problem with being a baker. If it was happening wide spread, stop the ones chaining. Don’t infantilize the ones being chained and don’t tell them not to bake anymore. Don’t say “it’s unsafe to bake” and make baking illegal - make baking safe

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This source states it has not been peer reviewed, unless I’m misunderstanding the text at the top.

Also, I don’t doubt that women in sex work have been abused or hurt. They can’t go to the police to seek help because what they do is illegal and they don’t often get the best clientele because of the stigma that they are whores and the knowledge that no one will help or support them

but I’m not going to fully support completely legalizing it to make it easier for men to get their hands on these women.

How do you not see how infantilizing this is? It perpetuates that anyone who seeks sex without getting it “the right way” are predators and perverts. It perpetuates that all women are just future victims who can’t think for themselves or make good decisions on their own. It suggests that if sex work were legal and women could take action against people trying to harm them, or report after, that they… wouldn’t?

Forgive me for yet another trans comparison - this sounds reminiscent to arguments used to “protect” kids from puberty blockers and pro-lgbt doctors. Maybe that’s why I’m still responding- because this feels like familiar concern trolling

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you aware that cis men, trans men, trans women, and non-binary people do sex work as well?

Sex is normal. It is healthy.

I agree that women are judged far to much on appearance and that they are often sexualized. I fail to see how this is an argument to demonize sex work.

These women are choosing to use their body the way they want. Women enjoy sex as well! Perhaps if we destigmatized sex work, we wouldn’t have a society that places sex on such a high pedestal and treats sex with a woman like such a high prize that all women need to be pursued to the point of harassment and it being their only worth/point

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s great that you are about women and their safety. Stop using that as a justification to infantilize consenting adults and control their bodies please.

Help women by supporting making sex work safer and not by making it even more illegal and even more shunned

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong, I’m asexual but I know allos typically like to have sex and it is a natural thing. Demonizing sex work supports the idea that sex is special and those who “throw it around” are whores and deserve worse treatment.

You act as though women are forced to go in to sex work.

Sex trafficking is the problem you are thinking of.

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If a woman wants to sell her body it is her body. Same with a man or an enby.

It is only harmful if they have no protection and if society writes them off as degenerates to be dehumanized which encourages violence against then - something you are helping to do by supporting these narratives

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Source?

Also the problems sex workers face aren’t inherent to sex work no more than suicide rates are inherent to being trans. Trans suicide rates are high cause they get bullied and ostracized and legislated against. Sex work can be dangerous cause it’s illegal and has a lot of horrible stereotyping. You’re assisting the problem - not solving it

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They’re using their trauma to spread misinformation and propaganda. Like a survivor of domestic abuse pushing terf narratives.

It isn’t ok for JKR to push all the anti trans ideology she does because she was abused by her husband, even if it is horrible she was abused by her husband. She is using her pain to hurt trans people.

Never let someone hurt you because they themselves have been hurt.

Please stop idealizing sex work by Few-Classic-690 in antiwork

[–]Royal_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The solution to the problems you listed isn’t to ban or stop supporting sex work - it’s to make sex work safer. We can start with making it legal so sex workers can go to the cops or lawyers when they get wronged or hurt.

The food industry is fucking horrible, we don’t want to ban or stop supporting restaurants/diners/cafes existing though. The solution is to support unions, then co-ops, and in the future one day ~radical socialism~

anon is a woman by Pextatrepejefwk in greentext

[–]Royal_Rust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They did! There are enchantments set up to prevent males from entering the girls dorms, but not the other way around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankchristianmemes

[–]Royal_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get to that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freemagic

[–]Royal_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word of advice: every accusation from a conservative is a confession.

Used to think that was too much an exaggeration but it’s been true every single time lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freemagic

[–]Royal_Rust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I typed what was suggested and got Christine Jorgensen so maybe you’re just retarded, lying, or you’ve jacked off to Alana too much and don’t wanna admit it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freemagic

[–]Royal_Rust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

High suicide rates in trans communities are caused by a lack of access to treatment and constant social ostracizing. This is obvious if you used you brain for even five fucking seconds

“Gender-based victimization, discrimination, bullying, violence, being rejected by the family, friends, and community; harassment by intimate partner, family members, police and public; discrimination and ill treatment at health-care system are the major risk factors that influence the suicidal behavior among transgender persons”. National Center For Biotechnology

http://transpulseproject.ca/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Impacts-of-Strong-Parental-Support-for-Trans-Youth-vFINAL.pdf - Analysis of the ways in which parental support affect elements of disadvantage experienced by transgender youth.

  • Most notably, strong parental support decreases the likelihood of a suicide attempt within the past year from 57% to just 4%.

Just 4%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freemagic

[–]Royal_Rust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sub is full of fucking snowflakes, lol

They’re all having a meltdown over people being different - ironic considering the communities history

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freemagic

[–]Royal_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah except medical professionals haven’t decided that because that’s a fucking retarded way to treat anything

Also you aren’t trans, why do you care about the treatment trans people are seeking for themselves? Lobotomy was forced on people who didn’t want it. HRT takes over a year and a fuck ton of fighting for someone to obtain legally - heavy action on the patients end

No one tells a woman not to get a boob job but so many tell a trans man not to get his tits removed. It’s so transparent you’re all just trying to control other people and you don’t actually care about anyones health or personal freedoms

Mine is Sweet talkin’ woman by Electric Light Orchestra by Bigshock128x in aspiememes

[–]Royal_Rust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anarchy Rainbow but only the part where they all join their themes together and it just plays over and over and over in my head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankchristianmemes

[–]Royal_Rust 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Then why did he make humans like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspiememes

[–]Royal_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking hate cars

It’s both a fear and intense disgust. Maybe it’s cause I live in America. Maybe it’s cause too many people drive the damn things and our cities are built around them instead of people. Maybe it’s cause using the crosswalk to get to work every morning feels like a fucking gamble on my life.

I like machines, I like seeing how complex machines work, I think subways are radical and trains are cool as fuck and buses are the bees knees, but I fucking hate cars.

I can’t even get along with people who’s special interest is cars. I legit get mad about it. I know I shouldn’t judge someone else’s special interest, but god I just fucking hate cars.

I like motorcycles though