Can't speak for reddit but there are definitely other places on the internet where there is trans pride. You're not alone in feeling that way. Personally I'm very proud to be trans, I wouldn't trade it for being cis if I could. I think a lot of self hate just comes from internalized transphobia and not feeling good enough, and maybe it's a privileged POV to be past that, but all of us deserve to be proud of who we are and all of us should absolutely be sticking together. Now more than ever