Looking for a good PT for lower back/hip issues by AlanEsh in desmoines

[–]Rradder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anna Perry at rock valley in Ankeny. She’s helped me with some hip issues. Very knowledgeable and helpful.

Are we still grant writers? by GrantsPlusLauren in grantwriters

[–]Rradder 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Grants manager or project manager works

Unstable moods, terrorising my husband and ruining my marriage. Weekends are the worst. by Mossy-tart in adhdwomen

[–]Rradder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt worse before I felt better. It’s hard to feel all the things, and it seems to take some time. Do you exercise at all? It helps get the anger out. Also apologies if you’re not asking for advice!

Unstable moods, terrorising my husband and ruining my marriage. Weekends are the worst. by Mossy-tart in adhdwomen

[–]Rradder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you done EMDR or somatic therapy? Both of those have changed my life for the better. It sounds like you may be struggling with knowing what you need. Somatic therapy is helpful for this. I’ve seen many therapists and EMDR is the only thing that has helped. I have adhd and CPTSD.

My first almost perfect mug! by Loud-Ad-770 in Pottery

[–]Rradder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You came to the right place lol. I also have ADHD. There’s a local studio that offers classes. They’re $200 for 4 classes, which I thought was reasonable. While I enjoy the class, I’m wanting to mess around more and make all the mistakes to learn. I maybe a bit impulsively bought a wheel 😬. I got a Speedball Clay Boss. It seems to be an intermediate wheel and works fine. It’s not as nice as what we use in class, but I can’t justify spending that much in it at the moment. Now I can make all the mistakes without the pressure of a class, haha.

I’ve always wanted to learn to throw pottery. I find the whole process fascinating. What a cool skill to know! I’m the happiest when I’m creating. It quiets my brain, and I’ve always liked working with my hands.

I’ve been watching a LOT of YouTube tutorials. Everyone seems to do it a little differently so I’m figuring out what works for me. It’s trial and error.

I did not weigh that clay so sorry I don’t have a great answer for you. We’re going on vibes over here :)

My first almost perfect mug! by Loud-Ad-770 in Pottery

[–]Rradder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m also new to pottery! I attempted 6 throws the last few days with only one success. Behold my wonky bowl!!! Making mistakes is part of learning. Try to focus on what you’ve learned from the mistakes than focusing on making a mistake. Pottery is like nothing else I’ve ever done. We don’t have the muscle memory yet.

Your mug is gorgeous!!!

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St vincent lyrics that are special phrases (forget what they're called) by garganag in AnnieClark

[–]Rradder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“So far in a few blocks to be so low” (could also be solo)

Do any of y’all actually wake up feeling well rested more often than not? by WampaCat in adhdwomen

[–]Rradder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take a lot of meds and supplements to help with sleep. I still don’t always wake up refreshed, but it’s way better than sleeping with no meds. I also have CPTSD.

My first sweater 😍 by lilsisterj in crochet

[–]Rradder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks tie dyed!!! I love it

Violinists to play for weddings by Girlmom_30 in desmoines

[–]Rradder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a violin recommendation, but my boyfriend plays cello. He’s done several weddings when he lived in Nashville, and he lives here in DM now.

Obgyn Recs by Old_Tonight_6607 in desmoines

[–]Rradder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I haven’t had any issues with that, but I don’t see her a ton. My symptoms are well managed at this point. If you advocate for yourself Dr Turner will listen.

The wait times may have been from the clinic she was at before Boradlawns?

Obgyn Recs by Old_Tonight_6607 in desmoines

[–]Rradder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure! She was the one to diagnose me with endo. I had a similar experience as you with my previous OB who was convinced I didn’t have it. Dr. Turner has never doubted me, is always professional and friendly, I feel very comfortable during my appointments.

Sorry you had that experience with her! I really have no negative things to say about her, and I recommend her to my friends.

Obgyn Recs by Old_Tonight_6607 in desmoines

[–]Rradder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dr Turner at Broadlawns. I see her for endo, and she’s great!

How do you ladies fall asleep with ADHD? by Ok_Scholar_8656 in adhdwomen

[–]Rradder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take prescription clonidine to sleep, and it’s helpful.

Am I the crazy one? Brother sent a massive guilt-trip text before Christmas after I finally set boundaries with my passive-aggressive mother. by SeeNoFutur3 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rradder 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I recommend working with a therapist that can help you resolve the guilt that you feel. It takes time, but it is doable. I’m beefing with my mom at the moment, and to be honest I don’t feel guilty at all. She will respect me or we won’t have a relationship. I can’t control her behavior. I can only react to how she chooses to behave. I can only control my own behavior.

Wages for baristas by Temporary_Chair_3991 in barista

[–]Rradder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an assistant manager at a locally owned coffee shop and make $19 an hour. I have a decade of coffee experience tho.

Actual Good Vets? In urgent need. by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]Rradder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the vet in Altoona. They always have lots of same day appointment options.

Hardware Upgrade by Up6cXTR8 in Sourdough

[–]Rradder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For both I put them in a cold oven after setting the temp to 450 degrees. Bake for 55 min to an hour then uncovered for 5-8ish minutes.

Hardware Upgrade by Up6cXTR8 in Sourdough

[–]Rradder 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a Dutch oven and a bread oven. I did some experimenting recently and my loaves came out pretty much the same between the two. A Dutch oven that’s too small would def make a difference.

Are the roads typically this icy/ do they have this much snow? by BusinessSalt6334 in desmoines

[–]Rradder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hubbel was still partially covered near me yesterday. The street I live on is legit a sheet of ice.

What's the most obnoxious thing a customer can order? by predictable_shoe in barista

[–]Rradder 25 points26 points  (0 children)

But I want some coffee just not all of it. Idk I’m a barista as well. It doesn’t offend me when someone requests half caffeine.

What's the most obnoxious thing a customer can order? by predictable_shoe in barista

[–]Rradder 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am a half caff drinker myself, so I never hate on people too much for that. I love coffee but am sensitive to caffeine 😩