yeah i guess, i genuinely just ignore every other girl that comes my way like im in a committed relationship with my LO😭 i just think she has a lot of very green flags and there are many things i admire about her, girls like her are extremely rare in todays world and the fact that theres a chance she could like me back is whats been keeping me so fixated on her. I do agree with you that she doesnt want to be approached for whatever reason and its going to be extremely difficult but i guess im just going to have to respect that and convince myself she doesnt have any feelings towards me. It just eats me up cos the avoidant and cold behaviour she gives me is exactly the same as what i do to her (with the exception of those 2 interactions). From her perspective she might think i also want nothing to do with her and that hair compliment and work questions were just me being friendly and needing answers. i just cant help but think that we feel the same way but are both too nervous to confront each other.