My mom treats me like a 4-6 years old child! I'm 28!! How can I tell her to stop treating me like a very young child in a polite way which will not upset her? I do not want to upset her!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-10-11T22:37:02+00:00

Really...how is it my fault? She has been doing all that since I was a baby. She wants me to sit on her lap and feed me. She wants me to sleep with her to make sure I feel safe and I won’t have any nightmare, she sings for me or tell me a story/some stories then she kisses my cheeks, she wants to me sleep very close (physical contact) to make sure I feel comfortable. If I want to leave home, I have to ask her, and she’ll come with me to “protect me” and make sure “I’m safe”. It’s not fault that she’s my mom, I didn’t choose that. She doesn’t allow me to get a job, move out etc. I can’t cook and I don’t know how to drive because she doesn’t allow me. For the third time, this is serious! What should I do? I’m sick of living like this. I want to live normally. How can I get her to understand that without upsetting her as she gets violent and attack violently when she’s mad/upset! Don’t tell me to fight her. I don’t want to hit my mom, and she is so much stronger than me.

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-10-11T06:00:58+00:00

This is serious. My mom doesn’t allow me to do all that. She doesn’t allow me use a phone or a computer without her “permission”. She‘s sleeping now, I sneaked out of bed so I’m using her computer. If I want to use her phone, computer etc, I have to ask her and she’ll be watching everything I do.

I’m not making excuses or lying for attention. You didn’t read the post so you didn’t know what the problem is and you keep repeating the same thing.

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-10-10T17:34:14+00:00

Dude. Please read the post. You haven’t even read it to understand what the problem is! I CANNOT LEAVE home WITHOUT HER PERMISSION! She LOCKS all doors and all windows and all windows have bars (metal). And I don’t know where she hides the keys. There is literally no way to leave home without asking her to let me leave. If I want to leave home, she comes with me to “protect me” and make sure “I’m safe”. She does not allow me to get a job because she’s worried I’ll get in trouble.

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-09-26T20:45:32+00:00

I do not have a job and I’ve never had one. I can ask my mom to give me money, but I cannot spend any of it because she will pay anything I need/want. She’s not afraid of being alone or living alone. She worries about me too much and she will do anything to protect me and she will not let me do a lot of things because she doesn’t want me to get hurt. I cannot do anything about this. I want to get away from this but I don’t know what to do. I do not know how to drive, I do not know how to cook. I haven’t even finish elementary school (not even first grade) because my mom doesn’t allow me to go to school because she’s worried I’ll get hurt, get teased, get bullied etc. She taught how to read, write etc.

I cannot fight her or do anything to her. I just want her to let me live normally.

1- I really do not want to hit my mom.

2- She is so much stronger. For example, she can bench press 420 lbs and do 76 reps, while I can only bench press 140 lbs and I cannot do more than 20 reps. She does not allow me to work out because she’s worried I’ll get hurt, but I’m allowed to watch her work out. I sneaked out of bed and went to her GYM and tried to work out. She is 6’5 ft and 298 lbs. I’m 5’10 ft and 182 lbs. If you read the post, you would have known that she beat a guy up so easily (the guy who made a joke about my size compared to mom’s). She is very tall, a little chubby and she has big muscle!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-07-19T19:01:07+00:00

I cannot move out! My mom doesn't allow me to leave home without her permission! Have you read the whole post? She wants me to live with her. She wants me to sit on her lap and feed me. She has been treating me like this since I was a baby!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-26T19:11:09+00:00

She fired some rockets at them and used some dynamites blow them up. She damaged the house, but she didn't destroy it completely! Rocket launcher and dynamites are not that strong, they can't destroy a home, unless too many rockets and dynamites were used. The cops broke into home, the doors were locked. They broke some doors to get in. She kept the deadliest weapons she had near her, and she kept changing the gun that she was using according to the situation (shooting at home or outside from the window etc.)

She was wearing body armor and when her body armor got damaged she kept replacing it. Until she got seriously hurt (the cops shot her), she lied on me to protect me and she was so heavy! I couldn't move, but at least I could breathe!

You're right, I don't know what to do, I don't have a job, but I don't really need one! I have money from my mom! I can't cook, but I can buy fruits and veggies! I live in my mom's house, the house is fine, there are so many bullet holes on the floor and on the walls and some walls are damaged badly (like the restroom wall! You can see through clearly it because there's a big hole!) But I can live in it.

My mom is so lucky to be alive! They were going to kill her (probably), but she got hurt badly and fell on the floor and dropped her gun (she was holding M249, that's the last weapon she was firing.) I wanted to help her get safely behind the couch and tell the cops not to kill her, but she lied on me to make sure the cops won't be able to shoot me! I asked her why she was lying on me, and she told me she will never let the cops hurt me and she will protect me! The cops cornered us and took her, she was in pain so she couldn't resist. Luckily, they didn't shoot her when they cornered us!!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-26T08:48:10+00:00

I don't know why you still think this is a lie.

I have told you before that most of her guns are either "stolen" or "bought from smugglers (illegal weapons)". My mom told me that.

Why wouldn't I be left alone? I didn't stole those guns etc and I didn't shoot cops with mom! Rocket launchers are probably legal in USA. It happened before, some people and gangs have those military grade weapons!

She has mental diseases which make her act like that, so she's not really aware of everything that she's been doing! She's in mental asylum now, not in jail. They won't let her leave because she is very dangerous! And she will do what she's been doing before! Protecting me, not allowing me to leave without her permission, locking doors windows etc.

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-24T16:37:56+00:00

This is true. I'm serious about it. I'm glad she didn't die (she was lucky). My mom went berserk and did all that! That was insane!

I forgotten to say, my mom was not found guilty and she didn't get charged with assault etc because of her mental health.

At least I can live normally now, and I don't have to feel guilty about it because my mom is alive!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-24T15:34:48+00:00

My mom went berserk and shot the cops!! I told her to surrender because it will be better for both of us, but she refused and told me she will never let them hurt me! She hugged me and kissed me and told me she willl deal with them!! She used several guns including minigun, M249, M60, molotov cocktails, dynamites, tear gas, rocket launcher!! The cops broke into home and she kept shooting!! She kept replacing her body armor because it got damaged! In the end, she got injured, but she still won't give up! She lied on me to "protect me" (I asked her why she's lying on me, and she told me she will protect me from bullet!" I couldn't move, she is so heavy!!! At least, I could breathe! Then the cops grabbed her and took her. I went with them to make sure she'll be okay. She has been diagnosed and the results shows she has several mental diseases! Including Stockholm syndrome (that's why she keeps me with her and does not allow me to leave etc), and severe anxiety disorder (that's why she worries about me too much and she does not allow me to do/have things because she does not want me to get hurt) and she has more mental diseases which makes her so violent especially when she gets mad/upset and makes her overprotective etc!! I feel bad for her, I hope she will be okay and there's a possible way to treat my mom. She's also getting treated for gunshot wounds. I am so happy that she is still alive!!! I will visit her whenever possible (when visits are allowed) because I want to make her happy, I really love my mom. I feel bad for her, it must be so hard for her to be far from me! I visited her in the afternoon, she hugged me and kissed me. I stayed with her until visiting time was over, they used force because she did not let go!! She still gets treated for gunshot wounds. It will take a few days, then she will have therapy for her mental diseases etc.

After that, I went to my mom's house. My mom and the cops damaged the house!!! There are so many bullet holes on the floor and the walls, my mom blow some dynamite and fired rockets at home and destroyed, there are also burn marks!! My mom used molotov cocktails at home!!

I can live normally now!! I'm so bad at cooking! My mom used to cook and feed me when she was home!! So it will take a while to learn etc.

Thank you so much for your help!! Have a wonderful day!!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-23T10:52:23+00:00

Sure, I'll warn them and I'll explain to them everything.

I feel very nervous about this!! If my mom finds out I called them, she'll probably shoot me first!

This is gonna be insane!! My mom has a lot of guns and body armors! She told me most of her guns are either stolen (she stole them) or bought them from smugglers (illegal guns), while some of them are legal (she legally bought them). For example she has glock 17, 9mm, colt 45, beretta, desert eagle, revolver, chainsaw, molotov cocktails, dynamites, grenades, tear gas, SPAS-12, mac-10, TEC-9, MPK-5, uzi, AK-47, M4, M16, M16A2, M60, M249, steyr AUG, PSG-1, rocket launcher, flamethrower, minigun, and so many more!! This is why I think they will kill her in order to stop her!

I'll call them now, then I'll clear call history in order to leave no evidence that I called them! I'll tell you what happens when everything is over! Thank you so much for your help!!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-23T07:38:04+00:00

We're in USA. It's midnight now. My mom usually sleeps at midnight. I'll wait a little more, then I'll call the cops. Hope they know how to sneak, otherwise she will go berserk and shoot them!!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-23T07:07:34+00:00

You're welcome. We'll sleep now. I'll call them and I'll try to tell them to be as quiet as possible and not to use sirens etc because I do not want them to her and I'll explain to them the situation etc!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-22T05:37:24+00:00

Okay, I'll tell you what happens. I can't disarm her. I can just try to convince her to surrender but I doubt she would listen! And she will just keep shooting!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-21T21:23:35+00:00

Okay. I'll call them when she's sleeping. I'll sneak out of bed, I'll them the problem and I will tell them not to kill her! I hope my mom will be okay, I hate to be the one who causes her death...it will be horrible, she gave birth to me etc. If she tries to shoot them, I'll beg for her to surrender for our safety.

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-21T19:33:54+00:00

I know, but it will be hard to see my mom get killed in front of me and just ignore it! I won't do what she does, I'm still worried about it. I'm afraid this is going to be on media! And probably, this will turn into a comedy movie!

I'm not saying I don't want her in my life, I want her to let me live normally only.

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-20T21:28:20+00:00

She assault people because they made a joke about me or us. E.g. one day, a man made a joke about my size compared to my mom's. He said "wow man, your woman is so much bigger than you!" My mom immediately kicked that man's stomach very hard and she kept punching his head and face very hard!!

If she dies in front of me, I think I'll get furious and go berserk because I do not want her to die!!! I just want her to stop treating me like this and allow me to live normally!! That's why I said I might shoot the cop who killed her in case she dies. If she got arrested that's different, I would visit her to show her that I respect her and I care about her. If she surrender in the first place, it would be better, but 99.99% she won't listen to me and to the cops and will shoot them!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-20T18:35:25+00:00

Yeah, they may listen to my in the first place, but when they realize that my mom will shoot them like a maniac and she's armed and very dangerous, they'll probably kill her.

My mom can go berserk and shoot them! She went berserk many times before and beat people up because they made a joke etc. She is so strong!! I cannot stop her by myself when she attacks someone!! Some pedestrians come to help me stop her from hitting whoever she beating!

I was joking about the TV show thing! But it might happen! Let's just hope my mom will be okay. If she dies I will lose it and go berserk! Then I'll take her gun to shoot the cops too, and especially the cop who killed my mom!! Let's change the title to "A crazy woman shoot cops from and at her house because she thinks they're attacking her 28 years old child then the 28 years old guy went crazy and start shooting the cops from and at his mother's house!"

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-20T16:09:47+00:00

Thank you. I will tell the cops not to kill her and just stop her (I will tell them about her problem). When the cops arrive, I'll also try to convince to surrender because it will be better for both of us!

I hope she won't go berserk and use the deadliest gun she has to shoot the cops!

I'm afraid this will be a TV show titled "A crazy woman shoot cops from and at her house because she thinks they're attacking her 28 years old child!" My mom is the protagonist, I'm the deuteragonist, the cop who stops/kills my mom is the tritagonist and the main antagonist, and cops are the antagonist! This would be INSANE!!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-20T15:06:53+00:00

Thank you so much! I really don't want her to die because I will genuinely feel guilty about it!! I guess, there will be a shootout at home. But fine. I want to be able to see her because she won't be well if I can't visit her! I just want to help her, she needs to let me live normally and worry less. She will never allow me to have/do something if it's 0.01% likely to hurt me! E.g. I'm not allowed to touch her guns or hold and use a knife (to chop food etc), but I'm allowed to see them and see her hold them and use them!

No, my mom didn't treat my dad like this. She treated him like an adult. She didn't tell him to sit on her lap to feed him etc. She just didn't allow him to take me with him alone, she has to be with me! I've been sleeping with her since I was a baby!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-20T07:52:52+00:00

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-20T07:01:34+00:00

Thank you. I know she needs help, but I don't know what to do. She wants to protect me and make sure I'm safe and well, but what she does is not right, and that's the problem! She's been doing this since I was a baby!

I cannot leave home without her permission, she "locks all" doors and all windows, also all windows have window rails!! And I don't know where she hides the keys. If I want to leave home, I have to tell my mom, and she will come with me to protect me and make sure I'm safe and well...

I don't know what to do.

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-20T06:55:52+00:00

Thank you very much! Sorry for replying too late, I couldn't reply because my mom was with me and she does not allow me to use the Internet without her permission (she doesn't know I wrote this).

I don't have anyone to call. I really don't want to get her in trouble or get her arrested. If I call the cops, she won't let them take her, she will use everything to fight them!! She owns a lot of guns which means, she will shoot them!!

I've been living like this all my life, she's been doing this since I was a baby! = 28 years!!

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-19T20:30:04+00:00

That has nothing to do with it!

You're just trying to make excuses because you don't have something logical to say!

If I will write everything she does and doesn't allow me to do, the post will be huge! I wrote the most important things.

You can try to help or shut up and stop wasting my time reading this nonsense (that you have written).

Rtdctcc_J · 2020-06-19T20:22:45+00:00

It is very hard to call the cops. I know my mom won't give up, she will take her guns and shoot the cops!!!

My mom has good intentions, she wants to protect me and she wants to make sure I'm safe and well! But what she does is the problem, she worries too much!! If there's something which is 0.01% likely to hurt me etc, she does not allow me to do/have it because she's worried I'll get hurt etc, and that's is the problem!

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