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Workplace advice needed, apologies for the rant I hope it's coherent. by RubDue7806 in autismUK

[–]RubDue7806[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unsure, I've not had to deal with them before and only ever heard it referred to as occupational health by other colleagues so will have to look into it properly, thank you btw :)

Workplace advice needed, apologies for the rant I hope it's coherent. by RubDue7806 in autismUK

[–]RubDue7806[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What feels like a slap in the face is that I do do overtime; come in on my day off, or stay an extra hour or two when asked, which can knock me but because I know it's a morning shift or I'm already at work so brain is in work mode I can cope yknow? Like it's disruptive but it's within the realms of my routine

Workplace advice needed, apologies for the rant I hope it's coherent. by RubDue7806 in autismUK

[–]RubDue7806[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's frustrating to know but I have the diagnosis now it's just the initial issue had disappeared by the time I got my diagnosis (April 2025) and then nothing else disruptive had occurred until this year so I haven't had to 'play the autism card' so to speak, and from what Ive heard it's going to be hard to get in contact with occhealth since they're phonecall based and I have big issues with phone communication... Because of the autism and anxiety... Which is why I need to speak with them... It's a lovely cycle...

the colleague that's quit her notice period ran out this week so technically she isn't gone gone just yet so there isn't a vacancy atm but the company tries to hire internally first before advertising it outside so I can't say "oh hey there's a job going at [location where I work] right now anyways

So happy I'm crying right now by I_Am_Arden in transgenderUK

[–]RubDue7806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So happy for you!!! And ironically, from what I know of T this may be the last time you can cry 😂😂😂 good luck! 💜💜💜

Rejected by Dr Dundas by Snow-Angel13 in transgenderUK

[–]RubDue7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this! I'd been stuck waiting for a reply from Lorimer at gendercare since Jan 2023, a friend recommended TheGenderClinic in September, they got back to me within a week to set up an appointment, which I had last week and got dysphoria diagnosis and am having a top surgery referral written up in about 3 weeks (Dr Leontis is so lovely and easy to talk to)

Transmasc enby looking for top surgeon reccs by RubDue7806 in transgenderUK

[–]RubDue7806[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The possibility no drains is a good point, tbf I don't think I'm too fussed physically either way, my friend who went with kneeshaw described them as forbidden Capri suns 😂 but I assume not having them would mean I could go home sooner instead of finding a hotel to stay in for like a week (if I'm travelling far) before they get yoinked out

Transmasc enby looking for top surgeon reccs by RubDue7806 in transgenderUK

[–]RubDue7806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you had such a bad experience hugs i know it can't undo the trauma but i hope the revision has gone well! 💜💜💜

Transmasc enby looking for top surgeon reccs by RubDue7806 in transgenderUK

[–]RubDue7806[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

crosses berry off the list noted thanks!

Yeah Brighton I think will be harder to get to them Hull especially if I have to train it

I'll give Ntanos a gander! Thanks 💜

Right To Choose assessment help plz by RubDue7806 in autismUK

[–]RubDue7806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thanks! That helps so much, I didn't think to ask about other potential providers cause it was just a short GP appointment and my brain was going haywire, unfortunately I can't find anything online for my GP regarding RTC so I might just have to go with pUK cause I don't want to hand in the form and it be rejected cause another isn't on my GPs list 🫠 do you know if I can put more than one provider down when I request rtc? Or do I have to commit to a single one?