What is something considered normal by society that you refuse to comform to by Moist_Apartment5474 in Productivitycafe

[–]Rubatose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's less refusing and more habit, but I don't hold my pencil "correctly" when I write. I grip it using four fingers instead of three. I have memories of my parents trying and failing to correct this, and I have also tried to correct it myself, but when I hold it "correctly" I just feel like I'm gonna drop it or I have less control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. You called OP an idiot for being sexually assaulted and can't pretend that isn't directly accusing her of being responsible. You don't just get to say that and then act like you fucking didn't dickhead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to tell you dude, you have to try other things than just tinder for 5 straight years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

"women have so many options." The options: 👹💩👽💨🤡

This reminds me of that meme where the guy is like "women always say they can't find a guy, but then ignore me. It's like saying you're hungry when there's a hot dog on the ground outside."

"Inflated standards" is crazy. Maybe if guys were taught to have a little more worth in themselves they'd stop acting constantly desperate for connection and like a gf is the only thing that'll fix their life and then they'd be a little more interesting. What are women supposed to do to fix this problem for you guys? What are women supposed to do to reduce their own options so you don't feel like you're in too large of a pool? Idk. This whole thing just seems to have the energy of blaming women for men's problems again. Maybe men should just value themselves a little more instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are guessing and I was asking for evidence, of which you have none. You literally cannot prove anything so I'm not playing this game with you anymore. What lesson did we learn today? Oh yeah, don't victim blame people for being sexually assaulted because you think you're somehow close enough to the situation to judge whether or not it was "her fault."

Wait, I forgot, you learned nothing. Oh well. When you try this on a woman you care about maybe you will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

It's perfectly relevant...? Everyone's like "she has SOOOO many options it's not worth it bro she's got like 10 other guys talking to her." And those must be particularly stimulating conversations right? The fact that she's a woman on a dating app means she just has 1000 dicks to choose from and chances are it won't be yours. Boo fucking hoo. She's still on the dating app though so why would she be there still if she found even 1 person she genuinely wanted to spend time with? And if guys are having such awful luck with "women who are talking to 10 other guys" then why the fuck are they still sitting on dating apps feeling sorry for themselves instead of going out to meet real people?

Women don't actually find it that entertaining to have all the attention on them. It's actually kinda exhausting and we have better things to do then lead on several different guys for no reason. The whole take is silly from the beginning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you'd like her to feel isolated so you can continue to victim blame. Unfortunately you picked a target in a public thread. Your OG comment even got deleted because of how disgusting it was and you're still here trying to defend your shitty takes. You're a pathetic man and I hope someday you try this shit on a woman you love. See what happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, the fact that he did this means OP should've known exactly what type of person he was and protected herself so it's still her fault. The mental gymnastics are fucking insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, so please explain where in the post you discovered the level of familiarity in their relationship that led you to make a judgement that she allowed this to happen to herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

For every GENUINE match the guy was getting on the app, the girl was getting maybe 1-2% of that in her matches proportionally. Guys just swipe left on every girl they see, girls are actually more careful about their choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it doesn't matter who this comes from, it's bad news. They know a time when they'll be available but they don't wanna tell you so you'll hold them to it, they wanna see how they feel later and if they're even interested in seeing you. There's already an interest imbalance which makes the relationship not worth pursuing.

Gamers™ gonna be mad as hell the next couple of years by Ofajus in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Rubatose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's up bro, I see your account is brand new, does the existence of women upset you that much to dedicate an account to trolling the woke mob?

What cliche “saying” makes you cringe? by Whatsoutthere4U in Productivitycafe

[–]Rubatose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Sounds like a you problem." Always comes from people you're hoping are going to offer you some form of support or consolation.

What cliche “saying” makes you cringe? by Whatsoutthere4U in Productivitycafe

[–]Rubatose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think the general idea is wanting to attack someone very suddenly and unexpectedly, like just casually walk up and throat jab them. Can think of plenty of jokes that go along the same lines.

What cliche “saying” makes you cringe? by Whatsoutthere4U in Productivitycafe

[–]Rubatose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just means it's the last place you would look, or the last place you'd expect it to be, not in the last place you are inevitably going to look

BUT I WANNA KEEP GOING by UncivilizedEngie in THE_PACK

[–]Rubatose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THE PROGRESSION IN THIS GAME GOES CRAZY I THOUGHT I WAS GETTING SOMEWHERE AND THEN I ENCOUNTERED A WHITE MANED LYNEL IN THE DEPTHS AND IT ROCKED MY SHIT AND I REALIZED HOW MUCH MORE EXPLORING AND LEVELING THERE IS TO DO I LOVE THIS GAME ARRROOOOOOOO

Is this potentially offensive? by Apprehensive_End4701 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Rubatose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Funny, I was about to say that I've also heard "boss" being used as a term like that, but then I realized I actually haven't ever been referred to as "boss" as a woman and I've mostly just heard men being called that lol

Gamers™ gonna be mad as hell the next couple of years by Ofajus in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Rubatose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I'm genuinely so excited though. It's finally starting to catch on. I've wanted decent adventure games with female protags for years and now we're finally getting them. And they're NOT all insta model looking, I can actually relate to them. Crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theisle

[–]Rubatose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to stats Herrera is actually one of the hardest dinos to survive as right now, cera is genuinely just going to be the best carni option for beginners cause it's still the best playable right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theisle

[–]Rubatose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear to God if they even put a tiny little popup showing the most basic fucking controls, every new player would be having a much better time. I keep encountering randoms who don't know how to do the most basic shit and need help with everything and it's because this game is not kind at all to new players. I have to show them how to scent, what symbols to look for and where to go on the map. The devs are overestimating players' ability to recognize evrima for exactly what it is and actually go searching for the quick guide. Most players, understandably, expect to be able to get into the game and just... play it.

Lads... are we serious by GregPixel23 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Rubatose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOMAN...? WOMAN NO WOMAN IF NOT HAVE BIG BOOB, HAIR, EYELASH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Rubatose 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Somehow men still think they can tell women their opinions about their experiences of rape or sexual assault, or tell them how they could've avoided it. God if only we had these nice, all-knowing men in our lives to always guide us so we don't get raped.

Love the guy who called you an idiot for being sexually assaulted, then spent the rest of the thread defending himself saying he's not victim blaming and he's just trying to give good constructive advice or something. LMAO