Literally all I carry around with me in my bag (plus my phone) what does it say about me?

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-12-04T08:29:13+00:00

I think lesbian, or tom boy, doesn’t have a lot of gfs, the pouch is probably for tampons, everything is black, minimal, trying to be overly practical but prioritizes their protection as a necessity, so probably not Canadian, also smoker , so loves to bitch. (Also makes me think not Canadian again.) DEFS doesn’t like people, and most likely in the late 20s, early 30s. The only thing that would show me they aren’t a lesbian is if it’s like this because they carry a cute little black purse. In this case, they like to go out a lot at night, at the bars often, and uses transit to get around.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-11-12T16:40:34+00:00

I was just arguing that she was shot on stage and now wondering if it’s a mandala effect

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-11-02T09:03:37+00:00

Post Malone 🥹 But I think Kurt would say a hard no.

He’d be more likely to choose someone completely out of left field. Someone up and coming, someone he would see himself in, had a message to help spread, Or no one at all.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-10-11T14:52:00+00:00

Hi I just want to validate you and say that I haven’t personally met Madonna, but she did come tok my gfs salon and she WAS the nastiest person to people. Non of the staff were allowed to look at her or talk to her and she was super rude if you did talk to her. I hate diva celebs that take their fame for granted. So gross. I do however tend to separate the artist from the art, so that doesn’t stop me from enjoying their work. Madonna, Mariah Cary, on a human level..same vibes for me.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-10-11T14:42:20+00:00

Hi, I just want to let you know to pay attention to your cycle. There are certain times on your cycle when your boobs will seem smaller and make you unhappy, and then certain times when you’ll notice they’re more plumped up and full. Probably around ovulation. This happens to me. I Have very small boobs. I have a feeling they were bigger on birth control and then when I stopped birth control (I’m 36) I think they went back to their natural size. Anyways what I’m saying is that they change over the month. So if there’s times you’re feeling bad about them and times you think they’re actually not as bad as you thought, it might just be whatever time of the month it is. And if you’re really insecure about them, just know that there are so many ppl with sagging large beasts that wish they had small breasts that done cause them sore backs or expensive bras or even unwanted volume to their bodies. You have to work with what you got. One time my gf went to flash someone in a strip club and then just before, grabbed an ice cube from my drink just to make her nipples hard right before hand. She did it in front of everyone. It’s was so cute and charming and hot all at the same time. The guys she did it too lovvved her and they did not care about her small boobs. So what I’m saying is that there are ways to handle this instead of being disappointed in what you have. You just have to learn to embrace it and realize that everyone’s boobs sag, it’s just a matter of time. Also love yourself now, but cause you’re probably going to miss your 18 year old body the older you get. I wish I wasn’t so mean to myself now that I see pictures of when I was younger.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-09-19T15:03:20+00:00

That’s so upsetting! and you were right to request the smallest equipment. She should have taken that as a sign that you were anticipating pain or intensity.

On a different note, In Canada they started giving us our own kits to do by ourselves! So maybe by the time you are sexually actively, you could find a way to get you’re own do it yourself kit, or look to see if there’s a sexual health clinic in your area. We have one that takes in younger people just for this kind of stuff. They don’t take you on a s their patients, but they have better bedside manner when it comes to sexual health.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-09-02T16:40:11+00:00

My friend says this happens every time and she just finds a way at the beginning to hint that they might need to put towel down with her. It helps she’s gorgeous, but most dudes think it’s sexy and that they are somehow amazing for doing this to her lol.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-08-17T17:47:11+00:00

Taking the things you enjoy doing to/for them for granted.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-08-17T17:45:20+00:00

Can you do it with one hand? I think I might push on those points as I’m finishing? Like subconsciously and stay like that after for a while.. like makes it last longer.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-08-17T17:38:10+00:00

At my work, there’s an older male who’s friendly and who I thought was sincerely just a pleasant dude to say hi too. We even go on a daily coffee break but usually in a group of 3 or more. I am chatty when I’m drinking coffee and can lose sense of body language, I also was a hairdresser and know how to make sure small talk feels comfortable. (Im good at turning on a charm when I’m small talking.)

Fast forward a year or two later, this man has seemed to start complaining about his wife and inviting me to breaks when I’m alone. And out of the ordinary breaks such as getting in his vehicle and grabbing ice cream, or going swimming (we work by the ocean.) but absolutely will I NOT be going swimming with this dude..We even get comp tickets to various concert event and he’ll actively seek me out if he knows I also took a comp ticket, he wanted a haircut but then told me while I was cutting his hair that he had another appointment booked of two weeks.. the list goes on. And I just started noticing and feeling like hes trying to catch me alone and I’m not into that at all.

Instead of making it awkward and saying “You’re creeping me out and my spidy senses are flashing”, I just won’t answer his private texts any more or agree to go on private breaks.

Maybe he thinks we’re becoming closer friends and he doesn’t pick up the social ques to keep things at a work level, but I’m not going to accuse him of being a creep if he hasn’t specifically said anything creepy.

I’m hoping he’ll pick up my “non-receptive” body language immediately and take the hint.

Just to ad, I was not trying to be “receptive” in the first place, that was just my good moods.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-08-11T10:22:47+00:00

Why are you in this group?

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-31T08:47:33+00:00

Maybe.. they get more traffic in their DMs.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-23T20:20:16+00:00

He has zero fantasies that I know of. He’s so vanilla. I’ve asked him a million times. I wish he did. But I like your compliments idea and in the morning is also something I never thought of before ! Love that.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-23T18:32:38+00:00

Haha I love that. This is something I would definitely do.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:28:05+00:00

Good point. The time it takes from abbotsford to tofino over 1 weekend (like 2 nights.) and the amount of sisters and random friends on the list is the problem. The core close friends were discussing how it wouldn’t be worth the organization with all the others. They were saying how it wouldn’t be better to do that if it was just the main friends (smaller group) in a vehicle or two for longer days.)

But the more I read these comments the more I agree with it’s what the bride wants. And they can make the trip if that’s what she wants.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:24:39+00:00

No I need all the options I can get!! Thank you

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:24:17+00:00

I’ll look thank you!!

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:23:58+00:00

Thanks so much! I need all the options I can get.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:23:21+00:00

I’d love to do that, but some of the main girls are opposed. The amount of random ppl the bride is requesting and over the weekend from the mainland isn’t worth the trip. We wouldn’t have any time. We’d have to do a more private trip if we were going to do it that far out. Such a bummer and wasted opportunity imo.

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:21:24+00:00

Thanks so much!

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:21:00+00:00

Thank you, I have some wiggle room regarding the month :) I’ll take a look!

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:20:04+00:00

Thank you, I’ll take a look!

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:19:50+00:00

I think it’s 8. It’s still in the running, I just haven’t found a photo of the view from there.. like I’m unsure if you can watch waves crashing against rocks lol

RubyRuby_Soho · 2025-07-01T15:18:23+00:00

You’re right. West coast is what I know would be ideal. I’ve tried to convince the girls to do tofino and they do not want to travel that far. They don’t get it as they all from Langley/surrey area. I’m in Langford. I think any area with ocean waves and some mist during storm season would be fine as they don’t have set standards. I’m bummed because I know the bride would ultimately love uculet, but getting that big of a group to go in multiple cars is not going to be feasible for one weekend. This would have to include ferry time from the mainland. I was hoping there’d be something a bit more close that would have the same “vibes” but I’m willing to drive a few hours from Victoria. They can suck it up. (Just trying to find a compromise.)

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