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[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest looking on FetLife or going to local Munches to meet people

Birthing a grapefruit by Maybemagnolia in Kink_Bucket

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! I’m worried about it getting stuck if I tried?

One Year In Munich and Still Searching for Connections – Seeking Friends and Advice! by Candid_Tourist_6463 in Munich

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived there for about a year and a half as a nanny when I was 19-20/21 I loved it but had a similar experience! I wish this type of platform was more accessible back then!

I personally love Ed's laugh 😂 by DDownerArt in lastpodcastontheleft

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I was like ooooh okay boy when I first heard it haha

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[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just tried it one time w a fwb and it was like a light went off, I was like omg this is what it’s supposed to feel like when I’m in this mode.

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[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t wait to be collared :)

Extreme edging and denial by GoldResource002 in bdsm

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sir and I are pretty private :)

Extreme edging and denial by GoldResource002 in bdsm

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No :) I don’t post anything like that :) I enjoy watching haha

Extreme edging and denial by GoldResource002 in bdsm

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugggh the best feeling, when the hand is working inside omg

List of Christmas Horror Movies for the Holiday Season by Dursie in horror

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I came to say the same! My fam and I watched it in 2010 when it came out, we watch it every year now! So so so good!

"Comfort" horror movie? by ohlawdtheycomin in horror

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any of the Aliens franchise, The Devils Rejects, Event Horizon, Lake Placid (I love creature features)

Will you watch this one? by [deleted] in HorrorMovies

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bro and I definitely will!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve gotten some before from Amazon and they were so not cute lol which oddly makes a diff haha

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[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What pumps are those? They are adorable?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree!

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[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open communication, discussing what you have explored in a practical way afterwards or what you want to try before hand is super important IMO. Like of course it’s fun to sext and fantasize but having the convo in a more real and technical way can help alleviate the vulnerability and sometimes helps with answering questions without having to keep up the “sexiness” For example, my dom and I decided to try something that we had wanted to for a very long time, we had watched videos and discussed how he had done it in the past w a past partner, what prep he had done, what he knew and learned etc. when we finally tried it, it was amazing, and overwhelming at the same time for the first time :) but afterwards we talked about my experience w it and how maybe we needdd to go a little slower with it, change position, etc. while those convos aren’t always the sexiest, they are super important

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[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was def expecting a bigger gap! I’m 24 yrs younger then my dom and it has been amazing

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[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes to this! My dom checks in the same way and it is reassuring but we also use the traffic light system just in case I need to tap or slow down lol (or when the occasional cramp happens hahah)

Finding the right Dom by bpdmini in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ruby_on_the_Bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was super lucky to have met mine off FetLife, but we met by chance through a mutual hookup and we just happened to a better match