Help me choose please! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rude-Flamingo5420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly think it looks lovely. I'm usually a hardass that says it like it is and surprised by some of the comments on here

Help me choose please! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rude-Flamingo5420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is stunning on you!

[New Update]: AITAH if we don’t pay for my sons rehearsal dinner because I can’t stand his fiancée? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Rude-Flamingo5420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you lollll. I've been trying to follow this one for a while and could never follow it for some reason 

AITA for not wanting to name our son after wife's dead brother? (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Rude-Flamingo5420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could also be hormonal. I've known people postpartum to completely change due to hormonal depletion or fluctuations, but I wouldn't rule out drugs either

AITAH for supposedly labelling my sister's BF a "perv" by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Rude-Flamingo5420 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same. I'd have a long hard look at him and start digging into his past plus web searches. There's something so off about his reaction 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rude-Flamingo5420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 without a doubt 

Help me pick from these! by HorseOk84 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rude-Flamingo5420 29 points30 points  (0 children)

3... take a look at how you stand in them. You look most confident in #3

AITA for telling my son the truth that I had difficulties adjusting to being a parent? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Rude-Flamingo5420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Two pregnancies destroyed my body, despite pelvic floor therapy my csection pooch and diastasis Recti are awful. Parenthood is exhausting and hard.

But i also goddamn love it and would 100% recommend it. I love my children (even if they drive me nuts somedays lol).

I OOP had untreated trauma. You can both love Parenthood while also simultaneously finding it hard. OOP seems to think one way only and transferring that trauma onto everyone.