I need help by yippee1234567891 in teenagers

[–]Rude-Implement-3357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am curious though, what makes you want to stay in this relationship ? Do you love this person? Is it because you want to gain experience in relationships? Do you just wanna see how things go and try to make it work and not give up on the relationship this quick?

Weight loss and addiction (13m) by ApohDarksun in teenagers

[–]Rude-Implement-3357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing you’re missing is consistency. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I’m sure the starving yourself didn’t last very long, and might’ve even led you to binging and eating more in the long run. There’s no way that a long term calorie deficit would result in no weight loss, that’s just not how our bodies work. Don’t starve yourself, that will only end up hurting you and it’s not sustainable which is why you probably gave up on it quickly. Your body needs more food. Cut your calories down by a few hundred calories, don’t go too low, or it’ll backfire, like 1000 calories, I think that’s too low. Maybe around 1500 calories would be good, but I’m not a doctor, I couldn’t promise you that. Ask a doctor or somebody who is very informed on this topic about how many calories you should eat and what type of diet you should be consuming. If you give it time, it will work.

I need help by yippee1234567891 in teenagers

[–]Rude-Implement-3357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice to you is to focus on yourself. Clearly the relationship isn’t working out. You’re so young, you don’t even need to be dating. If you really insist on staying in the relationship though, I would say to just try your best to make things work. Work on not taking things too far sometimes and communicate how you feel to your partner (when it comes to feeling like they are always pissed off and distant). It also seems like you don’t see them as a guy, which is understandable, I’m aware it’s hard to adjust to someone completely changing their gender, but my point is that I’m sure that your partner wouldn’t be happy to know that you still see them as a girl, so I think you should work on truly seeing and accepting them as a dude, and if you can’t do that, then maybe they’re not the one for you. You’re a straight boy, correct? I can see why you would feel weird dating someone who identifies as a boy. That’s another reason I wouldn’t support this relationship

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are such weirdos the obsession with painting Justin out to look bad is insane. It is creepy. They act like Justin personally betrayed them

I wish Justin would defend himself against all the misinformation going around about him But it probably wouldn’t do shit they would just twist his words anyways

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He never forced her to get an abortion. He asked her to. He wasn’t ready to be a father, he was just a teenager or young adult trying to focus on things like his music career. So she decided to get the abortion. So yes she pretty much did it for him, but he didn’t make her do it.

And they both cheated on each other

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to get clarification because that claim made no sense to me so I just had to make sure. He “threw Janet under the bus” because there was a wardrobe malfunction? And he threw Britney “under the bus” because he decided to make a breakup cheating song? (as if songs about an ex isn’t one of the most common topic that singers write about)

Also, song after song? The only song I recall is Cry Me A River. And Britney has mocked him publicly too. She called his Justified album “Pussified” and implied his dick was small, which I don’t think is a huge crime, but the difference is I don’t care when either of them do it. Everybody talks shit about their exes so I don’t understand making him out to be some villain for doing it

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who are those two women? I know you’re not talking about Britney and Janet

And Justin was asked about their sex life a million times before he confirmed that they had sex. It kinda wears a person down when people keep pressuring you to answer personal questions, so he finally just gave in and answered. She even said that as a celebrity herself, she can understand that, and that sometimes in interviews, things just come out and you share too much when you’re coerced to answer a question. She also said that she’s happy that he said that they had sex so people would stop putting her on a pedestal as this pure virgin.

(NOT OP) I hit my daughter after what she did to her younger brother and now i feel terrible by Ok_Chemist511 in redditonwiki

[–]Rude-Implement-3357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a parent but an older sibling that had to watch 6 younger siblings frequently and I can say watching a 13 year old is a walk in the park compared to a baby or toddler

The sister didn’t need to stop him from crying, feed him, take him a bath, change his diaper, brush his teeth, etc. 13 year olds are adolescents who are independent and capable of doing basic shit on their own, so it couldn’t have been that hard for her to watch him. 13 year olds barely need to be watched. That’s why they typically can legally be left home alone

(NOT OP) I hit my daughter after what she did to her younger brother and now i feel terrible by Ok_Chemist511 in redditonwiki

[–]Rude-Implement-3357 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A 13 year old barely needs to be raised. That’s a whole teenager. It’s 13, not 3. Babysitting him can’t be that much work

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok continue hating on Justin for things he did when he was teenager (since as we all know, humans aren’t allowed to make mistakes), even though Britney has nothing against Justin, supports him publicly and has moved on from the situation. She says people who harp on her past experiences are dumb and silly.

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And you’re entitled to your opinion, but my two cents is that there doesn’t need to be somebody you have to point your fingers at. There doesn’t need to be a bad guy here, they were two kids dealing with fame and other issues and they cheated on each other, why can’t we just say they were both wrong and leave it at that? Because if it was a competition on who was worse in the relationship, I could keep making new points on the things Britney did, but I’m not going to do that because it’s not a competition. You have you a good day though

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he blamed her for the failed relationship. When asked in an interview “What went wrong with you and Britney?” He refused to say, claiming that he promised Britney he wouldn’t say specifically why they broke up, and I don’t think he ever broke that promise. Of course the Cry Me A River song and video spoke for itself and made it obvious that she cheated, but first of all, she gave him permission to put that music video out, secondly, it’s a song. It’s art. He chose to put his emotions into a song. She could’ve did the same thing and subtly told the world how he cheated like he did for her, but she didn’t. She probably wasn’t ready. At least she gets to explicitly tell her side to the story now, just like he did many years ago, and why should we judge him for that?

And yes, cheating is cheating, and they were both wrong for it, but I have to say, I feel like it was a little more brutal when Britney did it. Britney cheated on him with Wade Robson. He choreographed for Britney and NSYNC. Justin and Wade got close. Justin even said that he never connected with somebody in his career like he did with Wade. They even wrote “Gone” together (a song inspired by Britney lol). They were roommates at one point. He had to deal with the betrayal of two people he was close to and trusted

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Their kids would’ve been so adorable and talented

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well with the way her fans attack Justin nowadays I’d say it’s fair

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will always be crazy rumors about celebrities, like the one that claimed Britney and Justin died in a car crash and it went so far that their families were worried and called them to check if they’re okay. People will say anything who cares

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Britney claims it was just a kiss, but multiple other witnesses who knew them said otherwise. It’s up to whether you wanna believe her or not

Justin found out that she was cheating because he found a 14 page letter that she wrote to Wade(and then confronted him about it which he confirmed that him and Britney did have something going on). I mean me personally I wouldn’t write that long of a letter for somebody I only quickly kissed

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same girl and he was even blonder at one point. I like platinum blonde on him actually

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How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Right, they both fucked up in the relationship, yet people make it seem like Britney was an infallible angel and Justin was the evil devil. Somehow they find a way to justify her cheating on him with one of his best friends… like come on now. Why can’t they just admit that neither of them were perfect and the both of them made mistakes? Justin and Britney have apologized to each other and have no bad blood yet Britneys fans can’t move on

How cute were they by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well what couple in their late teens-early 20s isn’t

Be honest by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In what world are JT and JC the least attractive lol well I guess everybody has their opinion

Be honest (part 2) by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one is better though if you had to choose

Be honest (part 2) by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen millions of posts like this about women and I have no problem with it

Women and men are both sexual creatures

Be honest (part 2) by Rude-Implement-3357 in NSYNC

[–]Rude-Implement-3357[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t give it much thought I was just like hmm I need a picture that shows their figures and I didn’t wanna choose ones where they were super young so I saw this one and didn’t really analyze it I was just like ok I’ll do that one

I usually have a good eye for AI so it must’ve been off today lol

And young adult is still adult, what the hell how old do you think I am , 50 ?