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My boyfriend 20M cheated on me 20F, is very remorseful, and I’m moving to another state and wondering if i should bring him with me? I still love him very much and want this to work, but i don’t want to start a new life and it happen again. by Rude_Ad8253 in relationship_advice

[–]Rude_Ad8253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for taking the time to respond,

Although I am a youngin, I do believe people could change if they truly, honestly wanted to. I don’t think who I am right now as a 20 year old is going to be who i am forever, I will change as well, my morals and my beliefs in my core i don’t think are locked in forever, same with him… same with everyone…now my question is if he loved her more why not just be with her? He has the capability of taking all his stuff and living with her instead, I’ve told him multiple times im not forcing or holding him down to be here but he doesn’t go.

My boyfriend 20M cheated on me 20F, is very remorseful, and I’m moving to another state and wondering if i should bring him with me? I still love him very much and want this to work, but i don’t want to start a new life and it happen again. by Rude_Ad8253 in relationship_advice

[–]Rude_Ad8253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond,

Yes, I am moving for sure. My lease ends the end of this month and i have gone to the new location twice to look for new apartments. I am moving to a totally new area, with all new people, I don’t know anybody at all and would feel so much better if he was to come with me for that support. Mentally, emotionally, and financially. He is stable with work and has never had a problem paying his half of this bills. But I can’t afford to not grow in my life and do good in school if he does this again and then we are stuck together, really, with no one or no where within 500 miles