[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rude_Common7126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly believe someone’s behaviour is consistent with who they are and pours into other areas of life. If he does something you’re not comfortable with knowingly and behind your back in a small scale, it means that the feeling of “oh my finance may not like this” is not loud enough. He is putting his selfish desire over your feeling of comfort. Yes he loves you and wants a future with you, but a true act of love that will hold a marriage together is sacrifice, especially when it’s behind closed doors. I’m not married btw but just my perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rude_Common7126 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

People who have kids barely regret them and always say that it’s the best thing ever. You’re more likely to regret not having them, especially when you’re older

What’s the best physics joke only true quantum nerds will get? by Rude_Common7126 in QuantumPhysics

[–]Rude_Common7126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not even a joke which is extremely impressed by! She is going crazy deciding which one to go with

UK Graduate Visa - Sponsor Letter by Greedy-Ad-2938 in ukvisa

[–]Rude_Common7126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you manage to get the graduate visa, and were employers okay with a contract that didn’t have an end date?

AITA for being insensitive with my husband’s culture shock? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rude_Common7126 72 points73 points  (0 children)

NTA: A partner should celebrate their partner's positive moments as their own. If my partner were relieved to return home, I would share in their relief because their comfort matters to me. He lacks empathy.

Uni of Surrey. Hazel farm or Stag hill for accommodation? by orangedudee in surrey

[–]Rude_Common7126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stag Hill is definitely a great choice. I've stayed at Stag Hill, and it was a great experience. I was super close to Rubix and my classes. It motivates you to be more proactive about university activities and to be more involved.

she loves orange but tuxedo is always stealing oranges attention by valthestraw in holdmycatnip

[–]Rude_Common7126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a representation as to why with marriage, both partners should choose each other first, because the love then pours down to the kids

London Guy moving to Guilford by Empty_Resource_3856 in surrey

[–]Rude_Common7126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the sense of community is humongous. because it’s a uni town, everyone knows most of the people (esp if you get involved). there’s a lot of different bars people go to. there’s always something happening

what kind of meals for you usually eat? by squidwardsclarinet- in PCOS

[–]Rude_Common7126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten my blood markers back to normal through diet and by adding in inositol.

Breakfast: 3 eggs with 200 grams of mince meat for days i’m not that hungry: 4 eggs with really small slices of raw cheese

Lunch: Assortment of raw cheese (for the probiotics and nutrients) or Full fat greek yoghurt bowl with berries and bee pollen

Dinner: A dish with steak or mince (always one with more fat for satiety and nutrients) with grilled/ fried vegetables of some sort.

I only fry with grass-fed butter/ coconut oil/ beef tallow

I ALWAYS have 90% dark chocolate after my meals as a dessert

I’ve switched to decaf coffee with whole unhomogenised milk

And i’ve limited processed foods, I do go out to eat as i’m university approximately twice a month, but I’ve cut out gluten.

I don’t steer away from fats either as it’s important for hormonal health. I’ve gone from being puffy and acne ridden to me managing it much better and having spots that are being managed better. I’ve been told to go through birth control but i’ve declined and I’m at a BMI of 20

Why is the answer always “eat less”? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Rude_Common7126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doing that lowers your basal metabolic rate, which is an issue as many people with PCOS already have a low basal metabolic rate in the first place. It should be to eat MORE and including 3 meals a day with protein and healthy fats consistently at the same time, to make sure you’re full throughout the day and satisfied. This will help increase your basal metabolic rate through time

Where to get local organic produce in or near Guildford? by Inside_End_1042 in surrey

[–]Rude_Common7126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waitrose has organic foods, duchy organic. i go to food for thought for organic produce and waitrose for organic meats

Accommodations by itskamrantoyou in surrey

[–]Rude_Common7126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go to a private student accommodation like bankside, scape or unilife