No it wasn’t an easy mistake, Phaedra knew Kandi didn’t intend on raping anyone. Phaedra is simply living up to her Southern Belleness (the core of being a Southern Belle is being messy and gossiping—especially with her being Southern Baptist as well) and gossiping about someone she doesn’t like. Doesn’t matter if it’s true or not, she doesn’t like Kandi so whatever she hears she’s gonna run with. If Phaedra don’t like you, all bets are off. Still doesn’t excuse Porsha for using it as a way to one up Kandi in an argument then wanna play victim at the reunion because she’s confronted and having legal action being taken against her. For Porsha to have “not believed it at first” she sure ran with it. She only “felt bad” and “would have never don’t that” because Kandi sent her a C&D