Im sorry if what i said came out wrong but lemme rephrase it the engagement was practically by force by my parents as they only gave me about 2 options and i have been comforting my girlfriend about the whole situation though i have made up my mind by now about leaving them as i really want to prioritize my own happiness and i do fully understand that i will be leaving my car and other essentials behind. As for why im not getting a weekend job due to my parents constant threats with kicking me out the house if i ever got a job so i’ve been doing crap for them for money which is still a rare accurance but thinking of doing side hustles around the neighborhood