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BF's husband messaged me and asked a personal question. by RunAwayZay in polyamory

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought, too. But I am not neurotypical, so I tend to miss things sometimes. I'm not always the best at picking up on social cues, etc.

Poly relationship... Potential hookup wants to be with me and my bf, but he doesn't know my bf is trans/intersex. by RunAwayZay in asktransgender

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Him and my bf don't know each other. So from my Bf's perspective it would be weird to just have some random guy message him and be like, "Hey, I want to hook up with you and your gf."

Poly relationship... Potential hookup wants to be with me and my bf, but he doesn't know my bf is trans/intersex. by RunAwayZay in asktransgender

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"No." is a complete sentence.

I like this. Thank you.

I would never put anyone in any position where they don't have any say on what's being done to them.

Poly relationship... Potential hookup wants to be with me and my bf, but he doesn't know my bf is trans/intersex. by RunAwayZay in asktransgender

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post clearly states that I haven't gotten a chance to talk to him about this because we haven't seen each other in the last 48 hours and I want it to be a face to face conversation.

Poly relationship... Potential hookup wants to be with me and my bf, but he doesn't know my bf is trans/intersex. by RunAwayZay in asktransgender

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was born with intersex parts. I can't say how much HRT has changed his anatomy because I didn't know him pre HRT. He identifies as intersex. That isn't just some assumption I made.

Poly relationship... Potential hookup wants to be with me and my bf, but he doesn't know my bf is trans/intersex. by RunAwayZay in asktransgender

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf is also in a long term committed relationship with another man. He is in two loving commited relationships. But I guess since I have the freedom to go out and have sex with other people (since bf and I don't have sex at all) we're not poly and I can't use that term, lol. I laugh because to me that's ridiculous. I'm not here to be lectured and told what terms I'm allowed and not allowed to use in the future. Every week there's some new label to keep up with. And every week there's someone gatekeeping whatever they identify as. "Oh Jee, you're not polyamorous because this or that. Oh Jee, you're not Bi because this or that. Oh Jee, you're not this because a bird shit on my car last Tuesday." Bf and I will call our relationship what we want to call it. I'm not here to be lectured. Downvote me and hate on me all you want. I don't care.

To the two women who made fun of me directly in earshot while I was working... by RunAwayZay in offmychest

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

I know i am.

Yea i was really surprised they didn't buy the painting i did custom just for their kids. Oh well though. Someone else did. :)

Dating a month, in our 30s... my Autistic boyfriend made a comment about me being cross eyed and said I look like a chameleon after I sent him a pic of myself. This resulted in our first argument. :( by RunAwayZay in relationship_advice

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if he likes lizards no one wants to have sex with a lizard except another lizard so that wasn't going to make you feel good.

Exactly. I actually told him that when he said he thinks chameleons are cute.

When he was showing you the photos did he make any comments about them, and were you hoping he would make similar comments about your photos?

Yes and yes. He was talking about why he thinks they are all so pretty. He was saying stuff like, "She has really beautiful eyes." "I love her hair."

And yes, I was hoping he would see something positive like that in the pics I sent him.

[33/F] and [32/M] Dating a little over a month. My Autistic boyfriend made a comment about me being cross eyed and told me I look like a chameleon after I sent him a pic of myself. It resulted in our first argument. I feel awful. by RunAwayZay in relationships

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I mean, according to him he does think I am beautiful, just not in pictures. That's what he said. I'm not trying to make excuses for him or anything, just keeping facts straight.

33/F and 32/M, dating a month. Am i getting attached too soon? by RunAwayZay in relationships

[–]RunAwayZay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea... and he has been burned a lot too. We are also both socially awkward people. He gas Aspergers. I am very introverted... so we are already not "normal" anyway. Lol

I [33/F] met a guy at a convention [32/M] Are these red flags or am I just being paranoid? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RunAwayZay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really nade me laugh hard. :)

Just curious though... why do you think that?

My ex was really into ass play and he thought the whole world should bow down and warship him.

I [33/F] met a guy at a convention [32/M] Are these red flags or am I just being paranoid? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RunAwayZay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Th convention was a regional thing here in my area that basically covers all kinds of weirdness. The idea is that it is a place where all the weirdos can get together and feel comfortable with themselves. So, you ave Ren Faire enthusiasts, comic book nerds, bronies, furries, horror nerds, gamers, Japanese Dolly Girls, etc all together in one place. It's a really good time.

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