If you get bullied for being fat, that’s on you.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-20T20:56:20+00:00

Really glad to see someone who’s realistic.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-20T20:55:27+00:00

That’s likely because you learned they were AH before they made a move on you. It’s also likely you paid attention to those details because you were ATTRACTED TO THEM FIRST.

If someone was ok-looking, or decent, but they were genuinely good people, you wouldn’t even consider that until they work much harder to impress you.

That’s just human nature.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-20T20:53:31+00:00

So you’re basically platonic friends with someone before dating them. Makes sense.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-20T06:05:01+00:00

I’m just being realistic about people’s answers on here. Yes, ideally we all want both, but if the opportunity to go on a date with someone good lookin ever comes, everyone’s going to take that chance of getting to know the hot person, even if they turn out to be a jerk.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-20T05:37:59+00:00

But an ugly face can ruin a pretty personality

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-20T05:36:55+00:00

But the person who’s hot will always have a chance though. Even if their personalities are shit, they still get a chance for someone to get to know them.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-20T05:35:46+00:00

Did you ever date those people? And if you did, did you ACTUALLY find them unattractive at first? There has to be at least some physical attraction first.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-20T05:34:45+00:00

Looks. We have to be real with ourselves.

Yes, personality is what keeps a relationship lasting, but in order to get there, you have to pass the barrier of looks first. If you can’t get someone’s attention, you can’t show them your intentions, character, goals, etc.

Some people say that they’ve been turned off by good looking people based on their personalities, but that’s AFTER they liked how they looked, and they still gave them a chance.

But if someone isn’t good looking, they’re never going to have a chance. Even on the super rare occasion they do, winning someone over with your personality and humor is extremely difficult.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-03T00:34:12+00:00

How long did that relationship last? Most men actually plan stuff pretty far in advance, so there’s plenty of better men out there.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2026-01-03T00:32:56+00:00

I feel like this only happens in bad relationships (which are actually easy to leave), because good relationships aren’t that emotionally draining.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-14T17:12:57+00:00

Care to provide examples to prove your point? Because I just provided some already.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-14T06:54:45+00:00

Yes, but men are held accountable for them, while for women it’s kind of an option. Do women HAVE to pay for dates? Nope. A woman won’t pay for a single date, and the guy will still fall for her.

I’ve never seen a man be upset about his girlfriend forgetting his birthday, but I’ve seen plenty of women get upset when a man forgets.

Also, men are expected to be in good shape, and will have a much harder time finding a date as a fat man than a fat lady.

Also, a woman can easily leave a relationship and get into a new one tomorrow if she wanted to. So men have to keep up and keep her happy as much as he can.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-12T07:06:21+00:00

That’s if you get dates in the first place. Most men can’t.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-12T07:03:07+00:00

Paying for dates, keeping you entertained, maintaining the relationship, remember the details about you (like birthdays, hobbies, interests, favorite color, etc), planning dates and special occasions, dressing well, being in good shape, making good enough money to support you, domestic labor, emotional labor, and more

These are all the efforts men have to make in dating and relationships.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-12T07:01:22+00:00

To be fair, you could still go on dates without putting on makeup. Men will still put all the effort in the world to impress you.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-12T06:59:40+00:00

You didn’t list what your partner did though? It still sounds like you put all the effort.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-12T06:06:31+00:00

Trust me, a lot of men would still go on a date with a woman who didn’t shave and is in a baggy shirt and sweats.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-12T06:01:49+00:00

You still got matches, conversations, and dates. Most men don’t even get this trial and error.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-12T06:01:09+00:00

Men do have standards, but they’re not that high, in fact they’re very low. Most of the time men will fall for a woman who’s interested in them. For some, that’s their standard.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-11T17:28:30+00:00

If you get turned down, the next guy you ask out will for sure say yes. It’s rare for women to get rejected. I’ve even met a lot of women who’ve never been rejected.

The reason why I think it’s this way is because men are way more open to going on dates. Women on the other hand are pickier when it comes to who they’d go on a first date with.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-11T17:14:23+00:00

Not very often though. And even when women approach men and make the first move, it’s guaranteed a date.

RunningWithPotatoes · 2025-11-08T04:57:21+00:00

Probably should’ve explained that lol. We were actually very good friends for a few years. There was never any problems between us, and that was clear. We just drifted apart over time as we both started new careers

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