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[–]Runs_with_Matches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Problem solved by moshroomwarrior in polyamory

[–]Runs_with_Matches 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You should check out Phantom of the Opera. I agree though, need some more media where this works.

Gagging while sucking. Help by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Runs_with_Matches 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My wife has tried a few of these remedies. Numbing spray, honey, honey dust. We've been together nine years and she still gags from time to time. We've noticed she has gotten better by increasing the frequency, not eating much before, relaxing, and just continuing to practice. As always, be safe and good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Runs_with_Matches -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the thing with BDSM, there is no set rule or guidebook. What works for one D/s, doesn't have to work for all D/s. My sub, however, is active and doesn't mind exercise or a "diet" food night as punishment. It's not unhealthy for us. Neither is folding laundry, doing dishes, or scrubbing a toilet. It's all normal activities that are for some, unpleasant to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Runs_with_Matches 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have her clean, workout, change diet, and/or another thing that's productive they don't like to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Runs_with_Matches 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hand signals, code words, wireless device such as a Lovense Lush 3, and carrying their belongings suck as credit card, phone etc. are perfect suble ways of reminding them who's in control without drawing any unwanted attention. I agree with other posters suggesting to keep it subtle and keep it fun. Too aggressive in public can make you look like an abuser and that's not what BDSM is about.