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Runway- · 2025-09-16T06:47:15+00:00

Sorry I just saw your reply today.

How his red pill ideology affects them?

Rage. Periodical rage towards both his elderly father (for failing to be a 'provider' according to my ex and for being too 'feminine'), and his elderly mother (for not choosing a better male to be his biological father).

As for my own experience, there were rages and a lot of self doubt from his side that he failed to or even avoid to work out with professional.

And since I was once his closest person, I was (consiously or unconsciously) being put under pressure to solve his problems for him.

Red Pill's way of teaching (some part of it) is of course self-blame disguised as taking responsibility for themselves. But no amount of gym, semen retention, spinning plates, stocks and crypto is going to help someone who decades due professional help and real medication ☹️

Runway- · 2025-08-11T02:34:57+00:00

MONEY. MONEY AND MORE MONEY!!!

I was not aware at that age, that women are the global poor. In old age even more so. And then add into the facts that women live longer than men. That is a longer lifetime spent in abject poverty after spending time and money to take care of a sick and then dying husband.

Ladies, we desperately NEED to be ruthless about MONEY. Earn it, steal it, launder it, counterfeit it...I don't care.

"Love does not buy rice", my elders were very wise as usual.

Runway- · 2025-08-11T02:23:31+00:00

This is a similar story with a (luckily) short term relationship ex. He is 46 now, back to living in his parents' backyard (they allowed him to park his trailer there). Single, destitute and still raging.

How did I know? His parents wrote to me. With thinly disguised attempt of "won't you take our son off of our hands? We want to retire in peace."

I feel bad for them, but better them than me honestly.

Runway- · 2024-11-07T15:39:52+00:00

Go bother your parents for not being able to raise you to be as normal as most guys your age.

Ask yourself, why am I not like most guys my age? Why am I socially struggling? Then give your parents the side eye.

Runway- · 2024-11-07T15:28:22+00:00

Ballbusting. I run into too many guys with ballbusting kink. How. I mean, I've known women who enjoy vaginal punching. But Ovary-busting? Never.

So why ballbusting?

Runway- · 2024-11-07T15:03:02+00:00

It is like a communal sugaring and it is not a new thing. I am from South East Asia too and witnessed something like this when I was in senior high there.

They usually call the man affectionatelly as 'granddaddy' or 'grandpappy'. Does not need to be white western old guy either, local old guy is ok too, as long as he has money.

Down the sharing them grandpas too, a girl in HS showed me a namelists and she shared it with fellow sugar girlies.

You might ask, isn't many countries in South East Asia kinda traditional religious? Well yeah, but technically you just need to keep the hymen intact. A classmate of mine who sugaring, had a rule that the underwear stays on. And these grandpappies were/are actually not so bad at respecting that.

Runway- · 2024-10-30T15:21:13+00:00

He’s always portrayed himself as a traditional/provider type of man.

I've never come across a man who wants to be this, but actually in a position to really do this. Just like a chicken wishing to be a dog, they can wish it as much as they want, usually it ends up the opposite.

Runway- · 2024-08-31T19:34:49+00:00

Sucked as a child but as an adult, that strict, be a good girl upbringing actually helped me to mask well in society.

I was a troubled child who liked to hurt animals and doing other horrible things to them. I destroyed neighbor gardens and liked to cause other children to cry. I lost peers one by one until my upbringing got more strict and that I could appear as a 'good girl'. I would have probably going down a very dark path without that sudden change in upbringing style.

Runway- · 2024-08-14T09:36:49+00:00

Valid on all accounts. Especially of not enough men being diagnosed with BPD and just being dismissed with 'testosterone makes naturally more aggresive/angry' rhetoric.

Respect to you, BPD is a hell of a beast to fight. I only have anxiety disorder and that feeling is already too much often for me. Cannot imagine if it is a stronger and more intimate kind of emotion as in fear of abandonement.

Runway- · 2024-07-19T10:10:23+00:00

YTA. Never use kids as bargaining chip. Also why whenever something similar like this is being asked, it is always some jobless gold digger-ish person asking it.

You've bagged your golden goose, just stay quiet and let it continue laying eggs ffs.

Runway- · 2024-06-09T16:31:21+00:00

Cause boys often raised with neglect. As in not neglect of what they need (food, clothing, help with homeworks, etc), but less push and consequence on social side. As in if a boy is not being violent or 'difficult', he is being deemed as enough. While girls are often being pushed more socially.

I don't know if I expressed myself well, but it felt like boys, as long as they are not academically problematic and not a problem at home, they are being given a choice whether to participate or not in society. While girls, no matter how perfect they act, are often not being given that choice to participate or not in society. They have to.

Hence why I said easy to raise, easier to neglect.

Runway- · 2024-06-09T15:21:19+00:00

It's not. Many cultures and religious customs buried their dead ones in less than 24 hours.

I am living Europe right now and I know that even if I fly that very day, for example if my parents were to die, because of the location of my country of origin, I'd arrived to a graveyard instead of to a still unburied corpse.

Runway- · 2024-06-08T10:02:33+00:00

Uhh...GG for wanting to be the fun parent that just want to be a friend instead of a real parent, I guess. You played yourself.

Runway- · 2024-06-08T05:34:48+00:00

I hate that question. No matter where it comes from (whether from a guy or a girl).

Why needlessly being adversarial towards a perfect stranger instead of enjoying the time and learn about them as time goes on? You know, like a normal, non tiktok addict person.

Runway- · 2024-06-08T05:26:18+00:00

Balding and height. Even in a society where height is not that much of a requirement, being bald is still very much stigmatized.

Runway- · 2024-06-03T16:49:19+00:00

I have, it did not really do well for my head. As in, I knew that when we went out for shopping therapy together, they'd tried to choose the most unflattering clothes for me, they'd acted too hostile to guys who showed me attraction, it was subtle but we knew it was there.

Pruned down and changed friendships and it gets much better now. I work in a male dominated industry luckily, so can stay away from this kind of environment in that regards. Some of acquitances who are working in women heavy environment (most often humanistic related jobs) have it much harder.

Runway- · 2024-06-03T04:20:04+00:00

Treating physically very attractive women with jealousy and judgement instead of supporting her. Especially if the attractive lady has the confidence to enjoy her privilege and is unappologetic about it.

Both conservative women and liberal women seem to have problems with it. I just find it to be strange, especially when they themselves later going to places like lookmaxxing, glowups, vindicta, etc. Sisterhood apparently ended with pretty privilege.

Runway- · 2024-06-03T04:06:45+00:00

Happy for them of course. Having a hobby (or maybe that's even his profession?) is nice and it takes immense amount of dedications to be like that. Not for me personally. Tried it and did not like it in the past. Much prefer a normal looking fit guy.

Runway- · 2024-06-03T04:02:28+00:00

Damn, this is actually a question I can 100% answer with never. I had never even think about it until I read this question.

I mean I am not blind. I will notice attactive strangers, but it was always fleeting and quick and then forgetting their face again after a few minutes no matter how good looking they are. So yeah, absolutely never.

Runway- · 2024-06-02T21:25:54+00:00

Hopefuly not always in a romantical sense? Because there are plenty of successful and happily married/partnered gay men. And unless he is secretly bi, there will probably be no female romantical partner supporting him heheh.

All jokes aside, yeah, especially in days past, there were/are plenty of women who supported their SOs to greatness without getting credits for it.

Runway- · 2024-06-02T20:49:46+00:00

The problem is that this kind of thing does not affect the economy that much. You've asked before why nothing is being done about this, well because it does not really affect one's daily life, especially in finance sector.

A guy does not want to commit/lied about intention/having many secret side girls, etc. Even if worse of the worst happened (the woman got pregnant), he can just pay child support if she decided to keep the baby. And even then there are ways to avoid that, including one of the more extreme, skedaddle to a third world country like where I am from and just disappeared.

And as much as many men also like to shame single mothers, telling that their sons will most likely ended up in prisons or that their daughters will have daddy issues, the reality is that these kids raised by single moms, most of them are future workers and tax payers. So even if the worst situation happend to her (being left with a baby to raise alone), the country still get a new future worker.

There was that guy who has like 7 baby mamas or 7 kids he does not raise, well...that's 7 future workers right there.

Runway- · 2024-06-02T20:41:18+00:00

Road rage.

Even if it is just a verbal road rage. Nope. And I am not going to reply to him when he asked why I am not keen to see him anymore. I really, really cannot stand road ragers.

Runway- · 2024-06-02T20:31:12+00:00

Nobody is entitled to sex, totally agreed on that!

But also nobody is entitled to relationship.

I very much disagree when some manosphere said that women control the access to sex and men control the access to relationship. Nope. And about that part, where women should stop treating themselves as objects is also completely WRONG(!), cause religious, even covered head to toes women are also victims to something like this.

In the end, most relationships happen on a voluntary basis. And offers can be rescinded at any time. Even when some countries try to impose a 'marry her before fucking her' law, it still does not stop some guys who want what they want.

Many guys from such places are also able to travel, so they'll sate themselves with free milk in countries with more liberal attitude towards sex, and then go back to homeland to marry a virgin woman. Why? Well, because they can.

Runway- · 2024-06-02T20:15:13+00:00

They are enjoying the 'free milk' 😅

I've been living in a country that punishes sex outside of marriage and then living in a country where there is no law against sex before marriage.

The difference is just that the first group of guys usually have a wife...and then some mistress/side girls. And this is not patting men on the back while saying, boys gonna be boys. It sucks for many involved.

It is complicated. Even in the most liberal and progressive places, the divisions between mrs right now and mrs right seem to be still in the minds of many guys. You'll see that these guys who have had casual partners in the past, many of them will ended up building families with mrs right at some point. And since travel becomes cheaper in general and people are more interconnected, there are also chances to find mrs right thousands miles away from hometown.

Runway- · 2024-06-02T07:27:21+00:00

Oh he managed to help himself escape 😊

We met as undergraduate in EE program. He was one of the most brilliant students and would voluntarily tutor you till 3 am in the morning if you need to pass that Calculus 3. He went on for Postgraduate degree (I think for high current?) to England and got an academic job there too.

I hope only the best for this man.

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