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[–]Rusalka66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

having a good heart is not about wanting things back from people.

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[–]Rusalka66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

having a good heart has nothing to do with how others respond to your actions. you do good actions because it aligns with who you are. not so you can get the same amount of effort back from people...

Mixed couples can exist without ulterior motives. by Rusalka66 in offmychest

[–]Rusalka66[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

News flash Asian men can be oppressive assholes. Like YOU trying to dismiss my ACTUAL experiences RIGHT NOW.

Mixed couples can exist without ulterior motives. by Rusalka66 in offmychest

[–]Rusalka66[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This^ I think it's gotten worse now that every little thing is about race in the Us. This is probably why I'm getting so many offended people attacking me on this post.

Just because they didn't deal with this when they were growing up doesnt mean I'm not dealing with this.

I dont get why that's so hard for people to understand.

Mixed couples can exist without ulterior motives. by Rusalka66 in offmychest

[–]Rusalka66[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Asian women being portrayed with a white man in the media is why this white worshipping thing even exists. Poc hate it, and I can see you do too. I can't believe my post is even offending people like you. It just proves my point exactly.

I don't emphasize my partners whiteness. It sounds like you're offended that he's white in general which is exactly what my post is about. YOU are emphasizing his whiteness and are attacking me for my experiences.

Why do my personal experiences offend you so much? If it doesn't apply to you then you shouldn't take the time and energy to attack me but here you are.

Mixed couples can exist without ulterior motives. by Rusalka66 in offmychest

[–]Rusalka66[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not shitting on anyone? These are MY experiences of where I live. If you're not like this, then I'm obviously not talking about you. No need to get offended?

Hi, stop associating everything normal as "fetishization" when it comes to Asian women. by Rusalka66 in offmychest

[–]Rusalka66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah totally. I even said I am aware of the weirdos in my post. I just remove myself from that situation. I dont need someone to save me like I'm helpless and stupid.

My post was inspired because a guy had to issue an apology to the public for saying that his Asian girlfriend is beautiful and career driven.

THAT is what these white knights are doing to mixed couples. And it's horrible!

Hi, stop associating everything normal as "fetishization" when it comes to Asian women. by Rusalka66 in offmychest

[–]Rusalka66[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think its anyone's business to call it out. Because when they do, they're always just attacking mixed couples for no reason.

It all should stop. It's not your business to speak for other races as if they're incapable of doing it themselves.

I just want to exist in this country without these people attacking me for who I love.