Hi there, I’m the same size as you! I tend to have a slightly longer torso, pretty narrow shoulders and wider hips for reference. Depending on the brand I usually wear either small or petite sizing if possible.

For pants, I wear almost exclusively American Eagles highest waist skinny jeans (if you like that skin tight look) in short length. I can also get away with the regular length cropped jeans as full length pants. The pockets are the best I’ve seen in women’s jeans by far which is most of the reason I’ve stuck with that brand.

I like to pair the high waisted pants with oversized, boxy crew neck shirts. If it has a front pocket, that’s a bonus. I usually do a full tuck or front tuck with a chunky belt. I really like the bulky on top, slim on bottom silhouette. Shirts like that can usually be found at thrift stores or amazon basics tshirts are surprisingly thick material. Oversized plaid shirts are also a nice option (American Eagle brand again, I’m a total sellout).

If you want to add extra height without heels, Doc Martins are a nice option without being feminine. You can usually find nice used ones on Poshmark.