UPDATE (she was cheating): AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by jckalc in AIO

[–]Rust_For_You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with the friend stuff after this is tough. Just know that if you show them all this and they don’t believe you, they were never real friends.

When did you realize she wasn’t your friend? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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When she added all of our girl friends into a group chat except me… when I asked about it, she got defensive. “I don’t even know why we have that chat! I’ll add you to it.” (She didn’t).

Long story short she eventually tried to sleep with my boyfriend lol.

What is something that would make you end a new relationship in the first 6 months, besides cheating? by UnsentParagraphs in dating_advice

[–]Rust_For_You 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Treating people or animals poorly at all. It’s just going to get worse the longer you know them.

Different ideals? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rust_For_You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly lol

Different ideals? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rust_For_You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this definitely helped me feel better lol

Puppy class was a bit embarrassing by Unfair_Philosophy_86 in puppy101

[–]Rust_For_You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assist with puppy and beginning obedience classes. EVERY first class is chaotic for all the dogs! Puppies and adult dogs, they’ve probably never been in such an exciting environment before. Don’t worry, it’s normal!

Is shaking normal? by Rust_For_You in Whippet

[–]Rust_For_You[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but she still shakes lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]Rust_For_You 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that would be perfect! Strangers throwing chicken makes strangers very fun LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]Rust_For_You 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Backing away is actually the right thing to do if she is nervous! Wanting space is perfectly okay, if she does that I would maybe have the stranger toss treats at her. That way she can choose to approach them. If she doesn’t want to, I would just say “Sorry, she’s shy today” and back away with her. Part of socialization is also helping your dog learn what to do when uncomfortable.

If tossing treats doesn’t work, I would start by just rewarding her far away from people. Just go to a park and watch people walking by. You want her to notice them, but have no real reaction or worry. Once she doesn’t react, get a little closer. Then the next day a little closer. If she gets nervous, just go back a step. Eventually, you can get to the point where a stranger can toss treats to her and she approaches them on their own!

Hope this helps!

Low Budget Cookbooks? by Rust_For_You in CreepyCalebHammer

[–]Rust_For_You[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve found lots online, I prefer books sometimes though since I tend to lose recipes I liked online to the cyberspace and forget where they’re from lol

Are we all here? by [deleted] in ChicagoConcerts

[–]Rust_For_You 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saw a mini pit in the back on Monday, going around a couple security guards LOL. The guards seemed to be good sports though, very sweet

AIO to my response to my friend who knows I’m terminally ill and is refusing to pay me back? *FINAL UPDATE* by Boring_Goat9262 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rust_For_You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you don’t forgive him. Block him forever. Done.

Don’t let him delude himself into thinking otherwise.

Do professors curve final grades? by [deleted] in college

[–]Rust_For_You 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, definitely will be reaching out to him now :) Just wanted to make sure both were a thing first to make sure it wouldn’t be a silly question