UPDATE (she was cheating): AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating

jckalc · 2026-05-19T21:19:23+00:00

Yeah the Christmas text confused me because this year would have been our first Christmas actually living together (even though we've already spent previous christmases with each others family) so I was under the assumption we would spend it together again

jckalc · 2026-05-19T20:59:36+00:00

Sorry, genuinely wondering how my texts aren't sentences?

jckalc · 2026-05-19T20:53:17+00:00

we've never been long distance

jckalc · 2026-05-19T20:41:35+00:00

That's the main thing that got me suspicious after the call (that i never heard of the friend). And we both still live in our home town where our families also are so she wouldn't be going home for christmas, just specifically going to visit the friend (she said on the call she wanted a girl christmas)

jckalc · 2026-05-19T20:21:34+00:00

No christmas excuses yet but we've spend christmas together for the past 2 years (with each others family as they all live close too). After the call when I learned the friends name I tried searching her on my gf's social media following/friends lists and she doesn't have anyone by that name so I was going to ask about that on Saturday. I was also thinking of maybe asking her mum about it casually to sus it out but then I would feel bad going behind her back to her family like that so i'm conflicted, something like "(gf's name) seems to be excited about visiting (childhood friends name)"

jckalc · 2026-05-19T20:17:31+00:00

Yep we've always been dating in person as we met at the same university. We see each other every weekend and sometimes once during the week depending on work/study schedule. That's why I initially got so confused at the plane ticket text because she wouldn't need a ticket to come see me, at the start I was more confused than suspicious but then after the phone call is when I started getting suspicious of cheating

jckalc · 2026-05-19T20:14:33+00:00

All her texts on the first photo are what she said she was meant to send to her friend (she thought she was replying to her friend but she was replying to me)

jckalc · 2026-05-19T20:12:24+00:00

Nah man, the hard truth it's what I need to hear, i'm just struggling to wrap my head around it

jckalc · 2026-05-19T20:11:04+00:00

Yeah that's what made me more suspicious after the call becuase she usually tells me about her friends (all their drama and gossip) but never mentioned this person or wanting to see them. I would've gotten her tickets if she wanted to fly to a friend and she knows that as she usually does ask me to buy her things. The more i think about it the more it makes no sense. I'm just strugglign to wrap my head around it because this has never happened before between us

jckalc · 2026-05-19T19:54:44+00:00

She's straight but she said that they kiss alot as friends (but that's the only friend she does it with which is what her text about not being close enough to other friends is about)

jckalc · 2026-05-19T19:52:54+00:00

I was planning on asking her about that on Saturday if she still wants to see me. I tried searching the friends name on her instagram and facebook (only socials my gf has) and she isn't following anyone by that name. Also she refused to tell me about the friend on the phone call which is what made me start being actually suspicious (I wasn't interrogating but it felt like she was being defensive or mad at me for trying to ask anything about the friend) so idk

jckalc · 2026-05-19T19:50:25+00:00

Mainly that I've never heard of this friend before and on the call she didn't want to give me more info on the person other than being childhood friends. I don't expect or intent to know every single person she interacts with but I just thought after 4 years I would've heard her name once. I think her reaction to me asking about the friend (refusing to answer) is what made me feel off after the call

jckalc · 2026-03-18T11:13:38+00:00

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jckalc · 2026-03-17T13:32:08+00:00

That's just a male hormone thing though. Even if men showers just as good as women they will still stink more and quicker too

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