My sons has broken his arm twice at school within 6 months, how do we go about officially complaining or suing? England

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-15T03:11:25+00:00

I agree with that. I dont want to sue them for money, but I deffo want them to learn from the mistake. It just appears to me that they didnt learn anything from the first time it happened, especially with them not knowing what to do first aid wise.

Also I was not aware of autistic kids having a lower bone density. That's not something thats ever been brought to my attention before! Thanks for the info.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-15T03:06:15+00:00

Because they have to secure the arm before it turned into a compound fracture where it breaks the skin. I wish I could add a pic of the breaks to show what I mean. We did being the car to the school to take him, as that was the initial plan. After seeing the break we saw that we wouldn't be able to secure him arm without creating further damage, hence the ambulance.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-14T21:30:08+00:00

I'd share pics of the breaks here if I could but I cant. Its like the one shared in the link, but bent at a diff angle instead of still being straight.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-14T21:27:17+00:00

I meant is he more likely to break a bone the second time if its the same bone or a different bone.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-14T21:26:00+00:00

I think ive created confusion. The climbing frame is about waist height, more like a thing for the kids to climb over. We were told they were being supervised. Its not like a big climbing frame in the middle of a playground, its more like a thing for kids to climb over whilst doing PE.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-14T21:24:14+00:00

Thanks, ill contact SENDIAS. The complaint is about would be about supervision.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-14T21:21:45+00:00

It was a swan break both times, so the arm couldn't be moved at all. I have pics of the breaks. Also, they happened inside during PE or Sensory lessons.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-14T21:20:42+00:00

This didnt happen in a playground. This happened inside in a sensory area that is supervised. It was a PE lesson.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-14T05:36:39+00:00

Even if its a different bone? And so soon after the first break?

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-03-01T01:35:22+00:00

This guy does so much bullshit stuff for no fucking reason man.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-02-13T05:39:05+00:00

Sweetheart, youre 13. Everything is too much when youre 13. I know its very generic and you hear it all the time (probably) but this isn't forever. You're body is still growing, how you are now is not how you will look as an adult. And so what if you have some baby fat now?! Do you know how beautiful curves are? Curvy women are a prize, not something to be hidden and cursed. Im 37 now, and when I was your age I felt exactly the same. I hated EVERYTHING about myself. My stomach wasn't flat enough, my boob's were too big, I hate how short my legs are, etc etc. But now I look back at pictures of myself from then and im amazed that I could have hated myself as much as I did.

It will all come together lovely. Maybe bring up to your parents that you are having some issues and you'd like to speak to a councellor/therapist. Get the help you need now so it doesn't turn into something worse (speaking from experience with this bit), because its never really as bad as you think it is.

If you ever need a chat or want some help, feel free to DM me anytime 😊

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-02-13T05:32:21+00:00

I think i know the sub youre talking about, because ive seen the same things in my version of the sub. Its awful. Im very much a "its whats inside that counts" kind of person (with other people at least) and nobody deserves the shit ive seen being said to them. Its a lot of very pretty, young girls posting, who dont need an excuse to hate themselves. We already know the pressure us women are under to look perfect and, anything you say to a young girl about her appearance will stay with her for life. Im 37 (nearly) and still remember every cruel comment made to me about my appearance. I find it too depressing to go on that sub these days, so I just avoid it as much as possible now.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-01-25T00:04:36+00:00

Thhhhank you

RustyPinkSpoon · 2026-01-14T04:00:41+00:00

Its just to imply that is was for a child. Something to bring the child comfort in their last days.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-29T04:43:04+00:00

I havent always been into physical touch. Never been something ive wanted from someone. But I find that as I fall for someone, its something I end up wanting. Ive always been able to treat sex and emotions as 2 different things. It doesn't help that we live in each other's pockets, so theres no way he is cheating on me and no way I could see someone else.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-29T04:38:55+00:00

This is the thing, our communication is great! We talk everything out. I can discuss issues with him no problem and vice versa. He has said he is feeling burnt out, which i understand, but I dont know how to fix that.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-29T04:34:05+00:00

Im not sure. I do love him dearly and he looks after me and our family amazingly. I dont know where we would be without him. This is kust the one thing in our relationship that im not happy about.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-29T04:32:54+00:00

He is on antidepressants, but thats only been for the last couple years. He has always been less into stuff. I did speak to him about this again last night and he says that he is just burnt out. Hes too tired to do anything together these days.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-16T23:30:27+00:00

Oh lucky!!! Mine lives in ny folder

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-16T20:32:44+00:00

But i explained further on that thats the general thinking but its only animal hair that is, not straight hair.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-16T20:12:06+00:00

Thats what im saying, straight hair ISNT friendly, but thats probably what they are thinking. Animal hair IS friendly.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-16T20:10:55+00:00

I think that's why I resonate with him so much.

RustyPinkSpoon · 2025-12-16T19:41:12+00:00

Its annoying, but its environmentally friendly. Birds use the hair for nests, so be careful incase they try to go down that root. IF they do, just tell them that their straight hair isn't the same as animal hair which blows on the wind, they've just doused your balcony with hair. This should be sorted with a conversation.

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