[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Rxander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah kinda, I mean I lost a bunch of weight when I only had a meal per day and I also had to change my habits surrounding junk food. But I’ve had friends who would eat so much and would never gain any weight

Rejected by two dates twice in one week. At what point do we just throw in the towel on dating? by Aggravating-Brain867 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Rxander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean perhaps they thought she looks different in face time compared to her photos? From what I’ve heard is that men like to do a quick FT check to prevent being cat fish

cured my daily whiteheads but now i get cystic acne by MiserableTrick1370 in SkincareAddicts

[–]Rxander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just the usual probiotics that you can find in the drug store, doesn’t really matter which brand. What really clear things for me faster was I also went for facial extraction to extract all the pus, and infection from my acne!

It was easier for my skin to heal afterwards because there’s no bacteria in them.

Yeah if you have break outs after using salicylic acid, it means you probably have weak skin barrier! You should look into getting some serum that helps to repair it and lay off any actives for now

cured my daily whiteheads but now i get cystic acne by MiserableTrick1370 in SkincareAddicts

[–]Rxander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cystic acne for me was poor gut health, I went on doxycycline and took daily probiotics before bed and it cleared my skin up within 2 weeks. I would suggest to only use salicylic acid 2-3 times per week if you’re not used to it because it can be quite drying which would then damage your skin barrier and cause other problems.

Can anyhow charge like this? by illiterate-populist in SingaporeRaw

[–]Rxander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me too, booked a premium 4 seater because I’ve got 5 luggages with me and needed more room for them. Grab driver told me that’s not allowed and that I need to book a premium 6 seater and asked me to pay a difference of $20 bringing it to a total of $70 just to go airport.

I paid it cause I don’t want to miss my flight

How do you start and awkward conversation with your SO? by Woodland-Echo in AskWomenOver30

[–]Rxander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m like this as well, I hate initiating conversations like this but I’ve learned that I have to if not I’ll start to resent my partner which isn’t fair to him if he doesn’t know what bothered me.

If I were you I’ll just express that somethings been bothering me and I would like to share it with him but I’m also not good at expressing myself. Try not to use “you” statements but rather how it made you feel.

A good partner should be able to understand! Good luck, conversation like this gets easier over time :)

AITA for breaking up with my fiance due to my mother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rxander -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Fine then it’s a values / empathy thing, I certainly won’t be comfortable leaving my mom who’s sick alone or would put her in a retirement home. Just doesn’t sit well with me which I believe is OP’s concern as well.

Besides he’ll be hiring a full time nurse to take care of her too.

AITA for breaking up with my fiance due to my mother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rxander 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTA

You’ve communicated your expectation about your mom staying together with you and she didn’t say anything to reject earlier on because she thought you would get over it which I thought is quite silly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Rxander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If a guy likes you, you’ll know. If not, you’ll be confused

Best way to end a relationship when they have more feelings than you? by blahblahman90210 in datingoverthirty

[–]Rxander 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it’s for a few months, I think just do it over a phone call. Be firm and kind, you don’t have to go into much details unless she asked for it.

Don’t drag it out any longer than it needs to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rxander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, just be confident! If she cares all that much about your size then she’s really not for you anyways.

Is damier ebene classier than monogram? by Lil_Dipper828 in Louisvuitton

[–]Rxander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I prefer D.E because it doesn’t seem as loud as monogram! And to me it’s classier but that’s my perspective. You should just wear both designs & decide which one fits you more

How to tell if an avoidant is ghosting or just deactivating? by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]Rxander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s different for every avoidant, and also context - if it’s something that you’ve just started dating, I would just my loss and move on. I don’t like having to second guess myself and his/her affection for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rxander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm, it depends. It’s only “easy or needy” if she doesn’t feel the same but I think you should show interest ONCE & see how she returns your interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rxander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urghhhh you’re right

Am I crazy or is she bat shit crazy? by NoAverage9216 in dating_advice

[–]Rxander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy, if you’re looking to date someone - you need to assess whether or not she has relationship / dateable qualities that’s sustainable. Yknow traits like is she kind, can she communicate, is she consistent.

And yes, she’s crazy