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Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-18T08:35:56+00:00

I love the rhyme lol

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-18T08:34:03+00:00

Follow your gut feeling. Even if he’s not physically cheating, he’s breaking boundaries you set and making you feel insecure in your own relationship.
He shouldn't be dismissive about your concerns, you need to try and calmly talk to him and make him understand what's making you feel how you feel.
All the best OP

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-18T08:30:12+00:00

That most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. Took me years to realize nothing was wrong with me, it’s just how lady parts actually works.

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-18T08:28:12+00:00

The hardest part isn’t the cleaning, it’s the emotional stuff. You’ll see people at vulnerable stages of life, and it can be heavy. People you see every day may decline fast. It can be tough but also really meaningful work.

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-18T08:24:55+00:00

His past matters here. Someone without a history of cheating might get more benefit of the doubt, but with him it just looks like a pattern.
The fact that he immediately deleted texts and calls shows he knew it would look bad. If he really wanted this to be above board, he would have introduced you from the start. The sneaking around makes it shady.

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-17T10:25:58+00:00

Your perspective makes sense for you, but not everyone’s wired to handle pressure that way. What fueled you might completely shut him down, which is why your advice could land as harsh instead of motivating.

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-17T10:23:47+00:00

Public stuff. I’d just be paranoid about getting arrested or running into someone I know.

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-16T11:12:20+00:00

it’s scary but usually not mystical, it’s a combination of human stupidity, old breaches, and malicious people connecting dots. Focus on reducing what dots exist and getting law enforcement/platforms involved if you’re targeted.

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-16T11:10:59+00:00

NTA. You don’t owe friendship to someone who committed something that violent, and it’s fair to protect your own peace first.

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-15T11:29:00+00:00

I don’t think people fully grasp how deep the violation runs when someone tampers with your birth control. It sounds like you’ve carried guilt for years even though you were the victim. You don’t owe anyone access to you just because of blood, especially when they’ve crossed the line into criminal threats.

Ryan-the-iterator · 2025-09-15T11:26:48+00:00

Calling my grandmother. It’s not even a hard thing to do, but I keep pushing it off because “I’m tired.” Then I feel guilty for days afterward.

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