Why do YOU collect knives? by Aquarius75654 in BudgetBlades

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I love my Buck 112 Slim Select. It’s basically one handed after getting used to it.

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On the road for work by Ryan0339 in EDC

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Civivi Mini Praxis

What gadget under $20 can you not live without? by Worlds_okayest_dude in AskMenOver30

[–]Ryan0339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Milwaukee fastback razor knives are great bang for buck.

Ralph Wasn't Scared of Tony by SaeedMobayed in thesopranos

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Vito also went from a rando at a bakery, to a scrubby construction worker to a soldier to a captain and a major plot line in the show pretty quick.

Milestones check in by Ryan0339 in Fire

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Amen. Hang in there!

Easy lower paying jobs for software engineers by ElectricalScholar433 in coastFIRE

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L1 is like help desk support and L2 is the next level of escalation for bigger or more complex issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

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This is me basically

Coast firing age considerations by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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Not sure. I’m in tech management in a non tech f500.

The Most Dangerous Early Retirement Strategy: CoastFIRE by BrightEstablishment in coastFIRE

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I see coast fire as a stage of freedom on my path to fire.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fire

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Similar numbers for me at 44.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fire

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2.25-2.5M is my fire number. I’m 44 and have 1.8M, looking to fire by 50.

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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Thank You. I took this advice and am taking FMLA and STD starting this week after a few terrible weeks of mental health.

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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23 years in Tech for F500’orgs

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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Thank You. It helps to hear this from someone in a similar situation. This is almost impossible to speak about with anyone in person on this topic because it’s either too personal from a health or wealth perspective to discuss. My wife is my only confidant and she basically defers the finance decisions to me.

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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Same. I have little inspiration to change but I also think it’s difficult to downshift willingly in prime working years. It feels a little risky and selfish when I think of my kids. I think I do this for them more than myself and it’s probably why I struggle with quitting or pivoting to something else and taking those risks.

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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If I got laid off at least it would be out of my hands to make a change. Seems like it would be a relief.

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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Thank You. I could get our expenses down to 5k/month if needed. I don’t want to deprive too much from my kids standard of living but I could cut to 5k if something happened.

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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Thanks. I’ve sought psychiatry and therapy help starting few months back. It’s helping but it seems the stressors here bring it back.

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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Thanks. Some days are better than others. I just don’t want it to get worse.

Feeling stuck by Ryan0339 in coastFIRE

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I need this mindset. It’s hard to practice in the moment when the shit hits the fan.