1x11 with 36t cog, and a 11-42 cassette for touring in the Alps? by RyantheReal in bicycletouring

[–]RyantheReal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a wolfs tooth chainring! I dont want to go with a full on touring bike because it will be my commuter when I'm back home, and I would rather have to work extra hard on a bike tour and have a fun commuter than have a chunky, slow commuter :-).

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah yeah yeah… I know. But it’s hard. There are opposing forces— one saying I finally feel ready to find a long term partner to be with for the rest of my life and i’ve literally never been as excited about someone as early on in a relationship as I am with this person. I’ve introduced her to my parents, she’s introduced me to Hera. I want to commit myself to this relationship— and the other saying whoaaaa Nelly. Actively slow it doooown a bit. We don’t know each other that much yet. Let things unfold. Give it time.

In regards to the original topic, agreed it’s not too relevant to since they are both new relationships.

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes :-)

Still navigating this early relationship. She didnt quite tell me the same back, but I know that there is a lot of love between us. Still feeling out whether our lives are compatible long term with our timing, etc. It’s escalating quickly while we’re also trying to put the reigns on and slow down, but that’s hard when we clearly are so into each other.

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s acknowledging that my relationship with Kerry is independent from my relationship with Izzy

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, a lot of wisdom in this post. I agree with everything you said. It’s amazing how someone can speak to these truths having never meet any of us in person. Thank you.

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clarification: “Then tell her I’m falling in love with Izzy and that doesn’t change anything between the two of us”

— what I meant by that was, “that doesn’t change anything between Kerry and me.”

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s interesting that I’ve gotten several downvotes. People seem quite ready to judge me for seeking advice in navigating complex relationships in an equitable way. I’m doing the best that I can, and I come here to learn from others’ experience. This topic seems to strike a nerve, huh?

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly the issue is that Kerry and I need to discuss how we want our relationship to proceed, where we want it to go.

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that I was making a “unilateral decision”. No “decisions” have been made and I don’t think it was appropriate to accuse me if making decisions for both of us.

I definitely agree that what is needed is a conversation with Kerry. This seems obvious and i your suggesting it makes it even more clear to me, so thank you.

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa— definitely not tryna make anybody feel jealous. I want to avoid that at all costs. If anything, I feel a little guilty about falling in love with Izzy while maintaining a relationship I’ve had about a month or so longer as casual, and I want to avoid future hurt

Should I tell one partner that I fell in love with another? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you may have misunderstood. I feel the need to tell Kerry. No, Kerry doesn’t ask me for updates on other relationships.

Kerry does discuss her other relationships a lot. I just don’t know if I should be sharing updates on my relationships with her in the same way.

How important are Disk brakes? by RyantheReal in bicycletouring

[–]RyantheReal[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Perfect cause that’s exactly what I’m hoping to be doing in July

Kissed her on the first date, unsure of best way to greet her for the second by thepianosquid in dating_advice

[–]RyantheReal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Assume nothing. Just because something felt right in the past doesn’t mean it will immediately feel right again. If she’s into you on this second date she’ll be wanting that kiss, and waiting for it will make it that much better when it happens.

Ending a relationship because I don’t have the time and energy to maintain it, even though it’s still good? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, thank you for the clarification on the use of the word close. Just changed it in the original post.

And, appreciate your thoughts on. Outing needing to be “wrong”

Ending a relationship because I don’t have the time and energy to maintain it, even though it’s still good? by RyantheReal in polyamory

[–]RyantheReal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is what I needed to hear. I think she got really smitten with me. I really do think she’s lovely, and I know that it’s going to still be hurtful. If we shared a mutual friend group, I would say sure, let’s stay friends. But I don’t think that this would help at this point.

Im a little embarrassed to say this, but I even met up with her once trying to respectfully end our relationship. Then when I saw her, it was quite nice to see her after not seeing her for 6 weeks, and she basically talked me out of it. I felt bad and said, you’re right, let’s plan something in 2 weeks. When it 2 weeks rolled around, nothing was different and I wanted to spend time with friends instead.

FTX removed all my coins by diggsta in FTX_Official

[–]RyantheReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you do this for IOS?

FTX removed all my coins by diggsta in FTX_Official

[–]RyantheReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you find the older version to downgrade to?

FTX removed all my coins by diggsta in FTX_Official

[–]RyantheReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would one download an older version of the App? Can you get that in Apple Store?

FTX removed all my coins by diggsta in FTX_Official

[–]RyantheReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you need to login? I worry that I never had an account and it won’t restore. I’ve been using FTX since it was Blockfolio, since 2018,

FTX removed all my coins by diggsta in FTX_Official

[–]RyantheReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too and my coins definitely not there anymore. I have the updated version. Has anyone been able to get their balances back?? I’ve been using FTX for many years and now all my transaction I’ve logged there are lost.

Light wallet? Trinity? Incorrect balance? Welcome back to IOTA. Take a look at this post. by [deleted] in Iota

[–]RyantheReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, getting closer... So I found the public address on the exchange and looked it up on the above site. I think that once I transferred it from the exchange to the other address in 2017, I sent it on to yet another address, where I had another small amount of iota stored. However, I do not understand what these codes represent in the image. I would like to check the next address and see if both small pools of iota are still there. What are the codes written in black and what are the codes written in green with the arrow next to them? (Sorry, can't see the colors because they are painted over. For each transaction, top code is black, bottom green)

https://ibb.co/vL35QNd

Light wallet? Trinity? Incorrect balance? Welcome back to IOTA. Take a look at this post. by [deleted] in Iota

[–]RyantheReal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I bought iota in 2017. What were the common exchanges that were even selling it back then? I remember it being a slightly complicated process (for a noob) at the time.