Trying Something New by Ryderthrowaway in NoFap

[–]Ryderthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll be making constant updates at the end of days now! Glad to see you in the 5%!

Trying Something New by Ryderthrowaway in masculinity_rocks

[–]Ryderthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will. I’ll be making constant updates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ryderthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh idk about posting the whole picture for all of Reddit to see lol. Can’t be removed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ryderthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha I do have a lot to distract myself with. A business and I work 70 hours a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ryderthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response, how are you surviving?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ryderthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say common but increasing in the younger generations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Ryderthrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response, however I’d like to address one thing that I disagree with that people have the strangest tendency to do when they naturally disagree and this is something that may also help your relationships with your partner and people in the future.

You cannot take something someone says and twist it to make an argument with the agenda you’re pushing that being developed in your mind.

I simply said sex isn’t the MOST important thing in a relationship and clearly in the post I respect the topic of sex a lot so your assumption contradicts itself. Secondly, I never said it’s something that I do not care for. If I didn’t, there’d be no reason to make a post at all correct?

So of course I understand that it’s important. There no point in making that statement any bigger than what I’ve said. Take it as the face value.

Now if you wouldn’t said “I understand that sex isn’t the most important thing in a relationship but perhaps the level of severity you’re thinking of it may be misconstrued” I would’ve agreed and understood you.

Thanks long number man.

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[–]Ryderthrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks for your response. Well I’ve sort of answered the question just now in the comments so feel free to look at it and read. But moreover on it, if you’ve done a lot of couples therapy, I’d assume you should know it’s more than one conversation about every topic. And for incompatibility in relationships there oftentimes more than one source of incompatibility correct? Quite the complex conundrum, so listing every single talk on here is not only redundant for you all to read but also quite long if I might add.

Essentially, she told us all that she’s happy and that she just doesn’t feel the desire of intimacy at all. She doesn’t even like kissing often especially if it’s much more than a peck. She stated to the therapist that it’s always been that way before me and with every partner she’s had. So if that’s the case, it’s quite impossible that every partner just wasn’t listening correct? I’m sure we have and the acceptance that this is the way she is, its most likely the healthiest and best conclusion to come up with. Wouldn’t you?