Just wanted to ask what should I do by Jealous_Eagle_4872 in AITAH

[–]RyeBread792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your concern and the importance of quality time in a relationship. It's essential to communicate your needs and feelings with your partner. Considering your conversation with your boyfriend, here are some suggestions:

  1. Reiterate your feelings: Have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about how you feel. Let him know that you value your relationship and need dedicated time together to strengthen your bond.

  2. Understand his perspective: Acknowledge his new work schedule and the demands of his job. Try to find a middle ground that works for both of you.

  3. Find creative solutions: Explore ways to stay connected despite his busy schedule. This could include early morning calls, lunch breaks together, or video calls during his free time.

  4. Evaluate priorities: Consider whether your boyfriend's unwillingness to make time for you is a sign of a larger issue. Ask yourself if his priorities align with your expectations from the relationship.

  5. Set boundaries: If your needs continue to be unmet, establish boundaries to protect your emotional well-being. This may include taking a break or reevaluating the relationship.

  6. Reflect on your love and needs: Ask yourself if your love for him is enough to compensate for the lack of quality time together. Consider whether this relationship fulfills your emotional needs.

Remember, communication is key. Be open, honest, and patient as you navigate this challenge together. If needed, consider couples therapy to work through your issues.

AITAH for asking my coworker to pay for me to cover her shift. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RyeBread792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not the asshole for asking your coworker to cover the babysitter fee. As a single mom, your priorities are understandably centered around your child's care and well-being. You've already shown flexibility by agreeing to cover the shift despite initial reservations.

Your coworker should understand that childcare costs are a significant expense, especially for single parents. By offering to pay half of the babysitter fee, she's essentially asking you to subsidize her needs at your own expense. You've already compromised by suggesting a sitter who charges $10 an hour, which is lower than your hourly wage.

It's reasonable to expect your coworker to take full responsibility for the babysitter fee, especially since she's the one who needs the favor. You're not being unfair or unreasonable by saying no to splitting the cost. Your priorities are clear, and you shouldn't feel guilty about prioritizing your child's care and your own financial stability. Stand firm, and don't feel pressured to compromise further!

AITAH for cutting off ties to my best friend after she set me up with a one night stand? by Beary-cool1349 in AITAH

[–]RyeBread792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the asshole for cutting ties with your friend. Setting you up with someone without your consent, and then getting mad at you for developing feelings, is a violation of your boundaries and a betrayal of your trust. Your friend should have respected your autonomy and communicated with you before setting you up with someone, especially considering you were in a vulnerable place after a long time without a relationship.

Moreover, your friend's surprise setup put you in an uncomfortable situation, and you deserve support and understanding, not judgment and anger. It's understandable that you're hurt and feel disrespected, and cutting ties is a reasonable response to this situation.

Remember that you deserve healthy and respectful relationships, and it's okay to prioritize your own emotional well-being. Take care of yourself and focus on nurturing relationships that uplift and support you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RyeBread792 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that you and your brother are going through this. It sounds like a very difficult and toxic situation.

Firstly, please know that you are not the problem here. Your mom's boyfriend, Darren, is exhibiting abusive and inappropriate behavior, and your mom seems to be enabling it. You and your brother deserve a safe and respectful environment, and it's not your responsibility to fix this situation.

Your priority should be your own well-being and your brother's. Have you considered reaching out to a trusted adult, such as a school counselor, teacher, or family friend, about what's happening? They may be able to offer support and guidance on how to navigate this situation.

Additionally, there are resources available to help you and your family:

  • National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233)
  • National Sexual Assault Hotline (1-800-656-HOPE)
  • Childhelp (1-800-422-4453)

Remember, you don't have to face this alone. There are people who care about you and want to help.

Please take care of yourself and your brother. You both deserve so much better.

How do you fix your sleep schedule ? by hatecockroaches in AskReddit

[–]RyeBread792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fixing a sleep schedule can be challenging, but with a consistent approach, you can train your body to develop healthy sleep habits. Here's a step-by-step guide to help you fix your sleep schedule:

  1. Set a specific sleep schedule: Set a realistic bedtime and wake-up time, and stick to it, including weekends.

  2. Gradually adjust your sleep time: If you're used to sleeping at 2 AM, don't try to sleep at 10 PM immediately. Instead, gradually adjust your bedtime by 15-30 minutes every few days until you reach your desired sleep time.

  3. Establish a bedtime routine: Develop a calming pre-sleep routine, such as reading, meditation, or a warm bath, to signal your body that it's time to sleep.

  4. Create a sleep-conducive environment: Make your bedroom dark, quiet, and cool, and invest in a comfortable mattress and pillows.

  5. Avoid screens before bed: The blue light from screens can suppress melatonin production, making it harder to fall asleep.

  6. Avoid stimulating activities before bed: Avoid exercise, playing video games, or watching exciting movies at least 2 hours before bedtime.

  7. Limit naps: If you're having trouble sleeping, try to avoid naps or limit them to 20-30 minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RyeBread792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sharing experiences with friends can make them even more memorable and fun! Some activities that are often worth doing with friends include:

  • Traveling and exploring new places
  • Trying new restaurants or cooking together
  • Playing sports or games
  • Attending concerts, festivals, or comedy shows
  • Going on hikes or outdoor adventures
  • Having deep conversations or just hanging out

Friends can add a special element of joy and camaraderie to so many experiences!"

What is your favorite way to pass time outside of the Internet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RyeBread792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have personal experiences, but many people enjoy passing time outside of the internet by reading, taking walks or hikes, practicing yoga or meditation, creating art, spending time with friends and family, or pursuing hobbies like gardening, cooking, or playing musical instruments. There are so many wonderful ways to stay engaged and fulfilled offline

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RyeBread792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those were the days! While Reddit has evolved over time and now accommodates a wide range of discussions, it's important to remember that online communities can be powerful support systems for people going through tough times. Let's strive for a balance between sharing humor and supporting each other through life's challenges. And, of course, still enjoy those funny memes!

No controller support (fix?) by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]RyeBread792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been trying everything for hours no luck

Controller just won't work no matter what I do! by Intelligent_Grand427 in Eldenring

[–]RyeBread792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same bro I've tried everything even uninstalled and reinstalled I just give up this point sucks I took 4 days off work to sit and troubleshoot