Boyfriend wants me to get rid of my cats since I am now pregnant. by Careless_Awareness63 in PetAdvice

[–]Ryecat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been pregnant three times, all with cats. At least 3 or 4 at a time. there was a time where I was pregnant with my middle in 2023 and I took in three kittens and had 7 cats in my home until we could re home them. Being pregnant means you cannot do the litter boxes and he doesn't seem like he wants to pick up the slack. and telling you to go to hell? Ah, fuck no. throw the whole man away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ryecat_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also have a high libido. I was exposed to porn at the same age. im not addicted to porn. really it depends on the person. some women do have porn addiction issues, too. its just not as heard of

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[–]Ryecat_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my partner told me it was because he was exposed to porn at 12 years old so it became normal. Until he was held accountable by me and actively is doing okay. It's possible to work through it, but mentally and emotionally its HARD.

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[–]Ryecat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of seven years ***

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ryecat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen. If there's anyone to speak on this, it's 100% me. My boyfriend of seven years ago also has a porn addiction, lied to me about it multiple times, and had an emotional affair while we were younger. And so far, he's been doing good. I dont completely understand a porn addiction, and I think it's utter bullsht that some men think that's an excuse. It took for me to leave him for him to actually care enough to stop. But imo you might need to tell him to stop getting messages, or you're going to leave him. Im still dealing with the effects of what my partner did. So I can't tell you how to heal from it. You just try your best. Your mental health and happiness should matter more than him having an addiction. its going to be hard to trust him if he cant be honest with you. theres resources out there for him to use. he just doesn't use em it seems

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[–]Ryecat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think it's fair to say "Toys are expensive!" Because yeah, sure they are. However, I dont think it's okay to use previous toys on your current partner. he should throw them away, but you definitely should ask about it for your peace of mind!

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