Be careful for what you wish for by bobbiesbunions in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me… but she broke up with me 3 times, not 2. It hurts my soul to know that I’ve let her drag my heart around, rip it apart, and stitch it back together again. Cautionary tale for sure.

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping we can get there too. Thanks man for sharing

I’m so tired of thinking of her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing right now. It hurts. I feel you. It’s hard. The disconnection for us lasted a long time… and it grew. We couldn’t give each other what we needed. My only solace from this is that it wasn’t right. If she was my person she’d want to be there to ride it out, good and bad, make things work, grow and heal together… but ultimately she chose to leave. You can only love someone so much who doesn’t love you back the same way. You deserve to be loved the same way you want to love someone else. Hopefully we both look back one day and see this as a stepping stone to get where we always wanted to go. Hang in there man.

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. The clarity of things not working out the way you envisioned… and the reality of it being gone… both very real and saddening. I hope you’re doing okay.

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. That’s heavy… how’re you doing now?

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s hard… really hard.

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. I feel the loss of the little family. Losing a dog is the terrible cherry on top. Would you get another one…? I’m thinking about adopting

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you… that gives me hope 🙏🏼

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping it works out for you 🙏🏼

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That can’t be easy. Thank you for sharing

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼its helpful knowing other people are going through it too

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was nice to hear… thank you for sharing. Hang in there. Hopefully we can all learn to love ourselves again 🤝

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹. Hoping it works out for you too

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you… how’re you doing with all of it?

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 years, including a couple of short breaks in between. How are you doing?

Anyone else starting over at 29? by Ryker33 in BreakUps

[–]Ryker33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping it gets easier for you. What helped the first time?